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Annabeth Stoll: Final Project

Final  Project Zine

Final Project – Accompanying Doc

 

I believe that I accomplished most of what I set out to do with my final project. If I had more time, I would try to interview more people, certainly a more diverse group if possible. I would love to see not necessarily negative experiences with feminism, but just more varied stories. Unfortunately, people are busy! So I am very grateful to the friends who took time out to participate.

The feedback I received during my presentation and from Professor Munshi was very helpful. I decided to take Prof. Munshi’s advice and include an accompanying document with my zine so it didn’t become clunky, and I could provide more context as to why I chose this format and to include the information that I did.

I think graphically the work I’ve submitted is strong. I had really hoped to make a physical zine, a little grittier and DIY than what I came up with – maybe something I can do later on! However being able to work in a creative capacity definitely made this a super fun final project, and helpful breaking up the monotony of final papers.

I think given more time, I would have been able to present a zine that feels more like me. Given that my classmates only know me from the short time we’ve been able to spend together this is a little vague – but I hope I’ve come across in my work. I think because I would have liked more time to complete this, I would give my final result a B.

Annabeth Stoll: DB13

 

The workshop we attended last week was very helpful. Especially during quarantine being in close quarters with a roommate, it is hard to make sure everyone is communicating their needs properly. I live with my best friend, so we are usually able to sort through our problems quickly, but isolation has definitely made things hard. I find that communication is the biggest factor I need to pay close attention to in relationships (platonic, familial, or romantic), because I have unfortunately experienced some of the negative behaviors we discussed. People who do not support you in a healthy way should all attend workshops like this! If only to recognize their toxic behaviors and hopefully rethink their approach.

Something I realized a few years back: not everyone wants to receive love the same way that I do. Attachment styles are different, and everyone should be able to express that to those around them.

Jasmine Maldonado: DB13

The workshop allowed me to reflect on my own growth, not only in romantic relationships but also in friendships and family connections. It was amazing to acknowledge my changed perspectives, which have been a product of my hard work to address personal traumas. Also, it was a great experience to go through internally, but the fact that I was able to take part with such an open and amazing group of people felt very liberating. Professor Munshi and all of our classmates have created a welcoming and safe environment, which in turn has allowed me to utilize this workshop and share my personal experience of a damaging father-daughter relationship. Even in an all-virtual classroom, I have gained feelings of being open and protected by all of my peers. Just as much as this was important to me, I hope that all could take away a sense of connection. Knowing that we are not alone and can all support one another in our journey to become kind humans, to others, of course, but especially to ourselves.

Ashley Concepcion DB 13

After the workshop conducted by Victoria from the Women’s Resource Center and Robert from the Counseling Center, I can say that I learned a lot of new information. There were a lot of situations they explained that are considered as toxic behaviors, in which I thought were normal and healthy at the time but in reality, it wasn’t. It’s hard for someone to realize when there are unhealthy behaviors being presented. Having people like them to help and give advice is a blessing. I liked that this workshop wasn’t just focused on what a healthy relationship should be but also what a healthy relationship in friendships and families should look like. I have. Now realized that there were moments were one of my old friends displayed a lot of jealousy, constant calling when I would hang out with other friends and so much more. Some can guess why we aren’t friends now, and it was because the friendship was so unhealthy. I want to thank Professor. Munshi for taking time out of class and bringing these workshops to us! Also, to BMCC for offering these amazing resources!

Elba Leon: DB # 13

From the workshop conducted by Victoria and Robert, the take away from the healthy relationships consisted of using my own experiences to learn what is the proper way to have a healthy relationship. Victoria and Robert placed an emphasizes on communication and on healthy coping habits.

I learned that the family dynamics in my household are so messed up and that in my own and future relationships I have to use my communication skills and expand on them. Also I thought I was a little crazy when my friend that I knew since I was nine until seventeen started to act very very negatively to me. It obviously was building up and I learned that it is alright to outgrow people and drop them when they are soooo toxic. Ive never regretted that decision.

Melody Kology DB #13

It was great that you brought in Victoria and Robert for the workshop on relationships. Relationships are always complicated, and each one is different. Each person feels differently about boundaries, and what they want out of a relationship, whether romantic, intimate, platonic, familial or otherwise. In any relationship, toxic behaviors and patterns can arise, and they can come in all shapes and sizes.

Especially if you were raised in an environment where toxic behaviors were the norm, it can be difficult to know what a healthy relationship even looks like. If you have unhealthy behaviors modeled, you might not recognize certain red flags of unhealthy or even abusive behavior in your relationships as an adult, and I can speak from experience there. It’s so important to have that outside perspective at times to remind us what healthy parameters and boundaries look like, and workshops like these can step in with that non-biased perspective of what is and isn’t healthy. I mean, living in a society like ours that so often models creepy behaviors as being romantic gestures, I know I have been confused when swept up in a charged romantic relationship about what should or shouldn’t be acceptable behavior.

In my view, as someone who has tremendously benefited and continues to benefit from therapy, I’m so glad BMCC offers these resources. Connecting with that department in a human level is so helpful, and encouraging to actually utilize that resource since I’ve seen how competent and lovely some of their people are. Especially after this year, managing all of the relationships at home, or conversely dealing with being alone, it can be a lot, and I seriously don’t know where I would be without a therapist to help guide me through it all. Having that advice can truly be a salve to your sanity. Any encouragement and accessibility to any counseling sessions is so wonderful.

Alex Olderman DB 13

I’m so glad the Womens Resource Center and Counseling Center did this collab! I thought it was great that they approached the discussion of relationships in a broader term to include but not limit itself to romantic relationships. Toxic relationships that exist within families and friendships are very prevalent and don’t usually get the same type of attention. Especially during pandemic living situations, it seems as if we are all living in very close quarters of each other, which makes setting boundaries and communication so much more important in order to maintain a healthy duel environment for living, learning, working, etc.

My boyfriend and I started living together only a few months before the start of the pandemic, I remember how difficult of an adjustment it was just to start sharing a physically small space with someone, but then when he started WFH how a whole new level of communication and boundaries needed to be implemented. It’s hard! It takes a lot of work and there were definitely some uncomfortable discussions and frustration but I’m overall grateful for the experience to practice being a good partner/roommate. However, I know how different this experience could’ve been if him or myself contributed to toxic behaviors or a lack of willingness to communicate. I think that the WRC and Counseling Center would be amazing resources for anyone who had concerns about navigating boundary/communication issues and potentially toxic behaviors!

Reminder: LAST DAY OF CLASS TOMORROW, FINAL PROJECT DUE

hi all,
Tomorrow is our last day of class!

I decided to reorganize the agenda for the day to make time for make-up class presentations– this means that most of the session will be presentations, and we will need to start on time and be strict about time management!

We will also go over the final exam instructions.

And, I will ask you to fill out a course feedback form on your own time.

 

DEADLINES TO REMEMBER:

  • FINAL project due tomorrow, May 11
  • All short essays and make-up discussion board posts due Friday, May 14
  • Final exam due Friday, May 21

Anta Goumbala: Essay#3

Disparities in the Workplace

The wage gap is a statistical indicator, usually used as an index to show women’s earnings relative to men’s. There has been the growth of women’s labor, and research has shown that women are even working more hours. Despite all this progress, there has been a significant wage gap between men and women. There is a difference between what women earn versus what men earn, with women earning less than men. The difference is usually seen across industries, and there have been explanations as to why it is like that. One of the reasons given for the gendered wage gap is differences in industries or jobs worked. This difference can be seen in many industries and companies (Gap, 2020). The so-called women’s jobs traditionally held by a majority female workforce, including health aides and care workers, tend to have lower pay than the so-called men’s jobs that the male workforce is most like building and construction. Another reason may be seen in terms of the differences in years of experience. In this case, we see that women are disproportionately driven out of the workforce because of duties like caregiving, which makes them have less experience than men.  This has also created the wage gap in many industries.

Another reason is differences in hours worked. In this, we see that women tend to work fewer hours as they have to accommodate caregiving and other unpaid obligations like taking care of their families. This creates a difference in payment, as men tend to work more hours. There is also the issue of discrimination, which despite being illegal it is still very rampant. Wage discrimination thrives in places where they discourage open discussions. Discrimination is usually not encouraged, especially when people are doing the same job, yet there is discrimination regarding payment.

Other types of gendered disparities in the workplace include an unfavorable recruitment strategy, which discriminates a particular gender, specifying that male candidates alone should only fill the role. This creates an unfavorable climate for candidates who want to fill job vacancies. Another disparity comes in the form where there are different opportunities where career progression in a company favors men more than women. From this, you get that most women have slower career progressions than their male counterparts. Men are given more opportunities for career progression than women that amount to bias in the company as sometimes even women who deserve promotions do not get them at all (Cundiff, & Vescio, 2016). Another disparity is holding sexist views in the workplace, like having outdated gender stereotypes that target women. The sexist views permanently curtail career progression as people tend to overlook others very much. For instance, a gender stereotype like women does not make good leaders, which curtails women’s progression in the workplace. Another disparity is sexual harassment, which usually acts of gross misconduct towards men or women, which has serious consequences. Sexual harassment affects a lot of people, and it can make one quit a job. People who have powers in the workplace usually perpetuate it.

To address these issues, there is a need to have a conversation geared towards having a comfortable workplace for all people. There is a need to create an environment that allows people from both genders to work comfortably and achieve career progression. There is a need to have equal treatment in the workplace and reduce the wage gap. Women are supposed to be given equal opportunities just like men in the workplace to work better and career progression; what is essential is what someone offers, not gender.

References

Gap, G. P. The Simple TruTh

Cundiff, J. L., & Vescio, T. K. (2016). Gender stereotypes influence how people explain gender disparities in the workplace. Sex Roles, 75(3), 126-138.