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I really enjoyed what they were talking about. It is really important to focus on healthy relationships. I do believe that a person we choose to form part of us, needs to be someone who can support us in all of the ways that you can imagine. When we are around negative vibes that what we are gonna feel, it’s the same as positive. So, it is important to be around positive vibes. Someone who can support, motive, help and others. After the presentation I realized many things and made me put in practice many things. Us in college, we do not need someone who’s gonna distract us or make us lose our time and opportunity to study. We always need someone who’s gonna help and motivate us. 

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Basically the story “Out in the night” is about a group of young friends, African American lesbians. They were out in the gay neighborhood of New York City. One of them is Renata a single mother and Femme Patreese Johnson. The group of them were walking in this area and an older man sexually and violently confronted them. He says to Patreese “let me get some of that” as he points below her waist. When she says that they are gay, the man becomes violent and threatens to “fuck them straight”. He is acting like because they are gays, they need a man. It is typical when a man sees a couple of girls together and says, “you just need a good man.”  However, we need to accept and respect any decision that others make about themselves. 

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Final Project: Manifesto

May 11,  2021

Since the past, we see how men and women were treated differently. Let’s talk about a feminist manifesto. Gender inequality, from the past when we used to have more opportunities and were able to do whatever they want to do. Such as going to work, being able to vote, being able to speak and make decisions on their own. However, women were the ones that didn’t have the opportunity to express themselves and make the decision that they wanted to make at that time.  

We  see that the roles for women are house cleaning and work as well as being the prime parent to take care of the children and take care of their siblings. When I mentioned women did not have the choice to make decisions, I can relate this topic to what my mom passed through. My mom is one of the oldest siblings of her family. I remember that one day, I was talking to her about how she used to live and things like that. You know what she told me. She told me that she really wanted to go to school, to increase her knowledge and learn new things. She was so anxious to go to school, but guess what? My grandparents did not let her go to school. Any of the girls. Her brothers were able to go out and go to school because they were boys and were able to go by themselves. I did research on the possibility of why girls may not be able to go to school. 

Some possibility are the following one: 

I had to look after my siblings: They are also more likely to have to look after younger siblings while their parents work to put food on the table. These gendered expectations affect the time girls spend in school, putting their progress at risk. 

There is no safe way for me to get to school: Girls who live in rural areas with poor roads or transport links have an even more difficult time getting to school. Some have to walk for hours to get there. In some cases it’s not safe for them to walk miles for school, threats can come from groups who don’t believe girls should be educated and do everything in their power to prevent it.

I’ve got to go to work: For many poor families the long term benefits of sending their children to school, especially their daughters, are outweighed by the immediate benefit of sending them to work or keeping them at home to help with house work.

I’m getting married!” or “I’m pregnant!”: In some parts of the world, girls are forced to marry young  sometimes before they even reach puberty to men who might be three or four times their age. And instead of attending school, they are likely to have children at a young age, which takes them straight out of the education system, with a high likelihood of this cycle repeating for their daughters.

Because I’m a girl: In some places, girls are viewed as less worthy of an education than boys, so when a family has limited funds, they’ll educate their sons instead of their daughters

Most of the reasons that I already told you, may be related to what my mom and aunts pass through.I have a really big family. My mother has 16 siblings. All of the girls did not finish school at that time when they were young. Her brothers were the ones that may have the opportunity to study. So many people take opportunity for granted. My mother and my aunts really wanted to go to school, but did not have the opportunity. Therefore, my uncles were able to study, but they did not like it. 

As I mentioned  some possibilities, we can imagine how difficult it could be for someone that really wants to study and is not able to do it. Returning back to my mother’s case. She could not finish high school at that time because she used to take care of their siblings. Also she was responsible for doing the housework. Moreover, she got married so young. She was not able to finish the study at a young age, but after she got my sisters and I. She moved to another town and was able to finish school. I am so proud of her because she taught me that the time has passed and maybe we are not able to do it at the time that we want, but later yes we can. She finished even though when she was young she could not have the opportunity to do it. 

According to Brady, “I Want a Wife” (1972). When the story says,  “I want a wife who will take care of my physical needs. I want a wife who will keep my house clean. A wife who will pick up after my children, a wife who will pick up after me. I want a wife who will keep my clothes clean, ironed, mended, replaced when need be, and who will see to it that my personal things are kept in their proper place so that I can find what I need the minute I need it. I want a wife who cooks the meals, a wife who is a good cook. I want a wife who will plan the menus, do the necessary grocery shopping, prepare the meals, serve them pleasantly, and then do the cleaning up while I do my studying. I want a wife who will care for me when I am sick and sympathize with my pain and loss of time from school. I want a wife to go along when our family takes a vacation so that someone can continue to care for me and my children when I need a rest and change of scene. I related this with my mom’s story, as she was taking care of her siblings. She was the one who was responsible for doing the work at home such as cooking, laundry, cleaning and babysitting. This could be one of the possibilities that made her unable to go to school because her parents need to work to get everything for their children.” Men should be able to do those things too, without a wife. Everyone is able to do many things. 

Finally, equality should be for everyone no matter what. As women are able to do work and housework, men are able too. Opportunities should be for everyone too, try to do not make excuse for their child to go to school because of their sex or gender. 

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In the seven years since the CR-INCITE! Statement on Gender Violence and the Prison-Industrial Complex first came out in 2001, a number of local and national groups and organizations have heeded its call and worked creatively and collectively toward making its vision a reality. It is important that after twenty year INCITE was created as a national radical feminist of color organization, here to help and protect people with interpersonal and state violence. I did a research and it says, “Abolition feminism is a liberatory visión of a world free from all forms of violence including gender violence and the violence of police and prisons.” This is important for everyone because it is important to society to feel safe and be protected. Living without violence. 

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Feminism is an ideology advocating for women’s rights on the grounds of equality for the sexes. Moreover, feminism is a movement to end sexism, sexist exploitation, and oppression. From the past until now, people think that feminism is about women seeking to be equal to men. Thinking gender equality, equal pay for equal work, and sometimes women and men sharing household chores and parenting. I was doing some research and I found that Sex  is a biological differences term-40between men and women – their body shape, size, and sexual and reproductive organs. Also, gender is used to explain the ‘innate character’ of men and women e.g women are sensitive, emotional and caring while men are confident, logical and responsible. I quote that I was looking and made me think a lot is this one that says, “As contemporary feminism progressed, as women realized that males were not the only group in our society who supported sexist thinking and behavior that females could be sexist as well, anti-male sentiment no longer dominated the movements consciousness.” Women have many opportunities in society.  

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A form of Feminism that aspires to the goal of sexual equality, whether by formal rights, control of resources or personal power. In society we still see how there is not equality in many ways. Many people treat others depending on who they are or what they look like. I know that many trans* do not feel safe in society or comfortable, but it is time to understand that everyone is able and free to choose what they want to be or do. Social media is one of the main ways to harass others. Too many people are uncomfortable and unsafe when they do not feel part of the society.

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La conciencia de la Mestiza/ Towards A New Consciousness by: Gloria Anzaldua

Acceptance of multiple identities, instead of picking a side. Mestiza? Developing a tolerance to ambiguity, tolerance to contradictions. A way forward. A way to embrace all identities. Accepting everyone as what they are. She uses the concept of mestiza talking about mixed race. It is like a combination of races. Accepting each other. 

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Redstockings of the Women’s Liberation Movement, is a radical feminist group. The Redstockings were influenced by Marxism, submission to male supremacy was a conscious adaptation to their lack of power under patriarchy, rather than internalized brainwashing on the part of women. Based on “The Politics of Housework” talks about how housework needs to be divided on everyone such as men and women. The reality on today’s day, women are the ones responsible for doing every single work at home. For sure it’s gonna be easier if everyone at home should do some of  the housework. Working as a team and never forgetting that women are not the only one that can do it. Let’s talk about “I Want a Wife.” It shows how a man it’s looking for a wife to take care of the child. The man is showing how without a woman, the child is not gonna be treated the same. But the reality is that men are also able to take care of the children. Men need to realize that they can, they are able to take care, to cook for their children, bath them, wash their clothes etc. 

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What do you see as the relationship between women’s movements and abolitionist movements? While I was reading and doing research about the topic, I found that the relationship between the Abolitionist and Women’s Rights Movement is that both movements reinforced one another. Becoming an abolitionist enabled women to speak in public and to criticize the institutions of American society that denied them. Moreover, The Second Great Awakening discussed women as moral reformers of family and society. Over time, women reformers realized that they lacked many of the same rights that they were seeking for others, and began to work for expanded rights. Women’s rights and freedoms were severely limited in the 1800s. They could not own property, rarely received a formal education, could not vote, and they could not hold office.