Nathaly Peguero
Final Project: Manifesto
May 11, 2021
Since the past, we see how men and women were treated differently. Let’s talk about a feminist manifesto. Gender inequality, from the past when we used to have more opportunities and were able to do whatever they want to do. Such as going to work, being able to vote, being able to speak and make decisions on their own. However, women were the ones that didn’t have the opportunity to express themselves and make the decision that they wanted to make at that time.
We see that the roles for women are house cleaning and work as well as being the prime parent to take care of the children and take care of their siblings. When I mentioned women did not have the choice to make decisions, I can relate this topic to what my mom passed through. My mom is one of the oldest siblings of her family. I remember that one day, I was talking to her about how she used to live and things like that. You know what she told me. She told me that she really wanted to go to school, to increase her knowledge and learn new things. She was so anxious to go to school, but guess what? My grandparents did not let her go to school. Any of the girls. Her brothers were able to go out and go to school because they were boys and were able to go by themselves. I did research on the possibility of why girls may not be able to go to school.
Some possibility are the following one:
I had to look after my siblings: They are also more likely to have to look after younger siblings while their parents work to put food on the table. These gendered expectations affect the time girls spend in school, putting their progress at risk.
There is no safe way for me to get to school: Girls who live in rural areas with poor roads or transport links have an even more difficult time getting to school. Some have to walk for hours to get there. In some cases it’s not safe for them to walk miles for school, threats can come from groups who don’t believe girls should be educated and do everything in their power to prevent it.
I’ve got to go to work: For many poor families the long term benefits of sending their children to school, especially their daughters, are outweighed by the immediate benefit of sending them to work or keeping them at home to help with house work.
I’m getting married!” or “I’m pregnant!”: In some parts of the world, girls are forced to marry young sometimes before they even reach puberty to men who might be three or four times their age. And instead of attending school, they are likely to have children at a young age, which takes them straight out of the education system, with a high likelihood of this cycle repeating for their daughters.
Because I’m a girl: In some places, girls are viewed as less worthy of an education than boys, so when a family has limited funds, they’ll educate their sons instead of their daughters
Most of the reasons that I already told you, may be related to what my mom and aunts pass through.I have a really big family. My mother has 16 siblings. All of the girls did not finish school at that time when they were young. Her brothers were the ones that may have the opportunity to study. So many people take opportunity for granted. My mother and my aunts really wanted to go to school, but did not have the opportunity. Therefore, my uncles were able to study, but they did not like it.
As I mentioned some possibilities, we can imagine how difficult it could be for someone that really wants to study and is not able to do it. Returning back to my mother’s case. She could not finish high school at that time because she used to take care of their siblings. Also she was responsible for doing the housework. Moreover, she got married so young. She was not able to finish the study at a young age, but after she got my sisters and I. She moved to another town and was able to finish school. I am so proud of her because she taught me that the time has passed and maybe we are not able to do it at the time that we want, but later yes we can. She finished even though when she was young she could not have the opportunity to do it.
According to Brady, “I Want a Wife” (1972). When the story says, “I want a wife who will take care of my physical needs. I want a wife who will keep my house clean. A wife who will pick up after my children, a wife who will pick up after me. I want a wife who will keep my clothes clean, ironed, mended, replaced when need be, and who will see to it that my personal things are kept in their proper place so that I can find what I need the minute I need it. I want a wife who cooks the meals, a wife who is a good cook. I want a wife who will plan the menus, do the necessary grocery shopping, prepare the meals, serve them pleasantly, and then do the cleaning up while I do my studying. I want a wife who will care for me when I am sick and sympathize with my pain and loss of time from school. I want a wife to go along when our family takes a vacation so that someone can continue to care for me and my children when I need a rest and change of scene. I related this with my mom’s story, as she was taking care of her siblings. She was the one who was responsible for doing the work at home such as cooking, laundry, cleaning and babysitting. This could be one of the possibilities that made her unable to go to school because her parents need to work to get everything for their children.” Men should be able to do those things too, without a wife. Everyone is able to do many things.
Finally, equality should be for everyone no matter what. As women are able to do work and housework, men are able too. Opportunities should be for everyone too, try to do not make excuse for their child to go to school because of their sex or gender.