In these times the subject of sex is very normal, nowadays it is spoken without any kind of restrictions or filters on the subject but even so, there are controversies about it. This article shows how to speak the language of sex, how communication is essential in it. Usually, when this topic appears, you always end up insisting that certain things happen, but without directly asking if that other person is really on the same page. No matter what kind of relationship it is, it can be friends with benefits or a serious relationship, requests flow fast and are very common. The language of sexual negotiations is very important because hinting at different things depending on how that person says it and the words they use. In a way, differences are made in how that person asks certain questions or insinuations, for example; in the article, it says “what differentiates them is less their meaning than what they do, and what kinds of actions they call for from their audience. One calls for an answer, one conveys information, one demands action, and one suggests an action for consideration.” This shows how important it is to think before saying anything to the person you are with, everything someone says can react, but it might not be the one they are expecting to be, it can go as planned as well as the other way around. Also, sexual communication does not always have to be about asking someone to be with you, it is about getting along during the process by speaking about certain topics or things they would like to experience because having an open conversation it is not just asking for sex it is having a good negotiation where you can speak about anything or just even to feel free to disagree with it.
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