As I reviewed the diagrams, I believe the Sex, Gender and Sexuality Interlace is the easiest diagram to understand gender, as it is clear and concise. However, if I was able to choose the whole website, I will use the Gender Unicorn website because it explains in depth what gender is.
For me, the groups that influence me most as a individual are: travel, advocate, and woman. Traveling allows me to connect with people, foods, and cultures that differ from mine. I am exposed to new things. Every time I have come back from a different country/city I see how differently I am able to communicate and connect with others. I value diversity and different cultures. Now more than ever, I take the time to learn about other heritages, whether its food, religion, etc. I think it is essential to learn about others to effectively communicate.
Being an advocate helps me relate to others regardless of our differences. Majority of the time, I do not experience similar challenges of those I am advocating for. However, it opens my eyes to all the different challenges people face and helps me connect and empathize with others. I value understanding challenges others face, especially if I have not experienced it myself. The only way I can help someone to the best of my ability is to fully comprehend what they are struggling with.
Being a women can be hard at times. There are times where women are viewed as weak, and are treated differently than men. There are also times where women have to fight for equality and respect. For me, being a women is powerful, and I will always help another women in need. I value women as a whole.
As a big sister and a current Employment Specialist for adults with Autism, I consider myself an advocate. This has led me to be disciplined enough to pursue my goals in becoming a Speech Pathologist. Being introverted and stubborn can definitely hinder my abilities to effectively communicate. At times I can be shy, especially if I do not know someone. However, I am still very observant and expressive when I need to be. As a stubborn women, I can be defensive at times, and maybe feel like peoples intentions are not always pure. There are times when I have to remind myself that people do not always have bad intentions
, and remind myself to take the time to listen to another point of view. Especially when I am upset.
