Discussion 2

As i looked through each of the diagrams assigned , I examined the presentation. They are all pretty similar but they also have some differences that makes them unique. Starting off with the gender terminology diagram, this diagram is simple but the visuals make a difference. For example in the section where it says gender attribution, it explains the meaning . Which is how other people see us , perhaps by our physical appearance or behavior . In the visual it shows a man in a wheel chair , I thought that image was an apotheosis of what gender attribution is. The following two diagrams I viewed were gender unicorn and the gender bread person. These diagrams as well were simple but weren’t as visual like the gender terminology diagram. Lastly the diagram I chose based on my preference was the sex, gender and sexuality interlace diagram. This diagram has a basic layout but it is detailed on each term when it comes to explaining gender. For example instead of just titling one section sex , it went on furthermore with description . It explained that the sex of person isn’t only the biological identification male or female , but it also broke down the biological sex functions. Which are chromosomal, genetic, hormonal, reproduction, gondal and sex organs . For others like me who didn’t really have understand at first of the basis and depths of gender , this would be a great diagram to refer them to. The details in each section would explain clearly on the different meanings on gender and would result in with a conclusion of better understanding.

The personal diagram that I drew opened my eyes to how many ways I identify myself. I realized I listed occupations and interests of how I want others to view me and identify me as , including how I personally see myself as . How I see myself as , I may not always share with others because that is not how I may want to be portrayed to others as . The three groups that I chose that I feel has added value to my life are me being a Christian/ minister/ woman of God , being a manager and being family oriented. Me being a minster of the gospel and identifying myself as a woman of God sometimes causes conflict. For one of many examples , I had an issue at work where my coworker would verbally insult me by mocking my beliefs. I never gave him a reason to be so hostile and rude , in fact I have always tried to be kind and understanding and allowed him always to speak his thoughts. I felt disrespected , no one else on my job ever did this to me so I eventually decided to have a conversation with him and vocalize my feelings . It was revealed to me that he didn’t think it was a big deal and after he apologized for his offending comments, though I don’t believe it was genuine because he still from time to time makes comments that are offending. Yes we according to our rights we have the right to freely speak , however respect and balance should also be put into consideration , especially when the other party is giving respect to the other individual. In addition to the other 2 groups I chose being a manager, this comes with conflict like the example I use above and many other kinds of barriers that can affect the communication with others . Even though I am new at being a manager , in the process of me being trained to become one and finally walking in the position. It has helped me grow and learn so many things about communication, conflict, problem solving , listening, business and character . In addition me being a manager and a young woman at that, makes it difficult for men to take me as seriously as they would if I was a man .Lastly me being family oriented is a huge part of my life , I have a very close relationship with a portion of my family. When ever we plan to do something whether its gathering for a celebration , serious matters or just spending quality time I make sure I try to be involved as much as possible. Sometimes this may cause misunderstandings with others outside of my family. There have been times my friends wanted me to participate in something but I already had made a commitment to my family plans. My friends felt as if I wasn’t there for them , but again balance is relevant including understanding .

By doing this assignment I have learned that Gender is so much more than the sex that you are assigned at birth. Gender is attached to your identity and the things that make you who you are today .