GWS
9/22/21
Oppression
“Privilege is the special right, advantage, or immunity granted or available to a particular person or group”. The experience of oppressed people is that the living of one’s life is confined and shaped by forces and barriers which are not accidental or occasional and hence avoidable” as stated Marylyn Frye in Feminist Perspectives on women and men.
I believe that there are different factors which contribute to oppression. It is a wide spectrum and cannot be limited to one experience.
I also have my own experience with oppression. Growing up as a woman, I always heard people around me talking about how a woman should conduct herself. I am from a religious background where there were strict rules in my church concerning women and how they should adorn themselves in public. These rules include, no wearing of jewelry, pants or makeup, just to name a few. There were no regulations for men other than no intimate relationship before marriage. While rules are important to every organization to maintain proper behavior, some would find these to be oppressive. For example, I remember one Sunday not long after I was baptised, my mom was at church and it was raining heavily, I did not attend church that Sunday. After the service, my mom called and asked me to bring an umbrella to the church for her. Before I got baptised, I was used to wearing shorts so I decided to wear shorts to bring the umbrella, not remembering that the church does not allow it. When I arrived at the church there were people standing outside who came from the service. One of them asked me why I wore shorts on the street since I now became a christian. I felt like I was targeted, and that they in their position should understand that I was a child and also a new convert in the church, therefore the way they came at me was discouraging and uncalled for.
Another place where oppression is found a lot is in the workplace. My mother sometimes comes home and shares her experience at work during the day. I would at times ask her how she handled it because it seems very nerve wracking. She explained to me that these are some of the things that I will aslo face when I am on the job, because there will be people from different backgrounds and races who will not always agree with me. However, I should not allow a person’s opinion of me to determine my performance, purpose and position in my job. It is also found on the street, everyday there is another circular video on social media of people being treated unjustly. These behaviours can affect a person negatively to a point where it causes anxiety or mental trauma. Everyone experiences some form of intimidation at some point in their life, but whatever the cause of the situation that makes a person intimidate another, it should not be tolerated.