The conversations surrounding sex, sexuality, gender, and even feminism have grown increasingly complex in recent times. One can begin by analyzing the ideas surrounding sex and gender. Now more than ever, people are beginning to realize and acknowledge that sex and gender are not the same things. These two concepts are often confused, and the article Sex and Gender 101 seeks to provide a basic understanding of the differences between the two and the changes we are seeing in today’s society surrounding both.
The article begins by defining sex. Sex is the biological makeup of an individual and is directly defined as “ the anatomy and physiology. This includes sex chromosomes, sex hormones, sex organs, and external genitalia.’ (Myers, 2016). Myers then discusses sex in detail from differences in sex and even special conditions where a person may be intersex or have male and female reproductive anatomy. Myers ultimately highlights the many differences across people in terms of biology; At the same time, sex doesn’t change or is easily altered. Everyone has a unique makeup, and no two people are exactly alike.
The article then discusses gender, defined as “the social and cultural roles that males and females are expected to subscribe to based on their biological sex. Gender can be broken down into three main categories: gender assignment, gender identity, and gender expression.” (Myers, 2016). While it is no secret that conversations concerning sex are becoming increasingly extensive, especially amongst this new generation, Gender and gender roles have been long debated up until; this very day. The critical difference between the two is that “Biological sex is universal and static. Gender is a cultural construct that shifts between societies and across time” (Myers, 2016). When one looks at the main concepts of gender, which are gender assignment, gender identity, and gender expression, one can notice that all these behaviors are learned based on societal expectations. Gender categories limit simultaneously; this can first be seen in gender assignment, where our sex, male or female, determines the gender we will take on. As individuals, we have no say; our gender is what we are born into. As we grow, we are socialized, carrying out the specific attributes of the gender we closely identify with based on previous association.
As discussed in the article “ In America, boys are taught and expected to be tough, risk-taking, wild, athletic, strong, aggressive, rugged, handsome, not emotional, messy, loud, heterosexual studs, uninterested in domestic chores and care-taking, unromantic, interested in sports, cars, guns and climbing the corporate ladder, and have an insatiable interest in superheroes and the color blue. On the contrary, girls are taught and expected to be soft, submissive, cautious, delicate, graceful, prim, pretty, weak, passive, emotional, tidy, quiet, heterosexual prudes, interested in domestic chores and care-taking, romantic, disinterested in sports and cars with zero career aspirations and have an insatiable interest in princesses and the color pink.” (Myers, 2016).
Eventually, these socializations lead to the development of gender identity, which is how an individual sees, but because gender is social, it does not always fit the person. Not every woman is highly feminine is neither is every man. These conflicts in gender ultimately expose how restrictive genders can be and how they create barriers and prohibit individuals from truly living the life they feel best suits them. We see gender identity and gender roles conflict in various concepts such as feminism, which is discussed extensively in the publication Feminism Is For Everybody, which discusses the long history of feminism and feminist and its roles in society and politics but ultimately what this article presents is the feminism is for everybody. It’s rooted in true equality for women and creating a space where all people can exist as themselves. Women, unfortunately, have been hit the hardest throughout history with gender expectations and being held to unfair standards, unlike their male counterparts. Feminism serves to signify that women are just as capable in all sectors as their male counterparts and that gender role ultimately brings about more societal damage than good.
I don’t believe gender roles are inherently wrong, but they should be closely monitored as times change. Gener roles can be restrictive and cause issues in society because they limit our abilities to think beyond whether someone identifies as a ma or woman and what that entails. Overall I believe that gender is what we make it ad if society continues to seek to change the narratives in the right way. Change can flow seamlessly with little conflict surrounding the ideals and people’s personal beliefs and solutions.