Although my only brother is eleven years old, he is able to clearly point out gender rolls but not in the best ways. “Feminism is for Everybody” and the reading on the Raising Zoomer site, reminded me of the multiple times in which I found myself challenging gender rolls and explaining them with frustration to my Hispanic family. I was taken back to when I was a child and was already learning how to clean up after and cater to my family, specifically my father. At my brother’s current age, I knew how to do many household chores and in comparison, he has not been asked to do much when it comes to this. I realized the act of cleaning should not have to be expected by a specific gender as cleanliness is something that everyone should take part in and I find myself explaining this to my brother who eventually takes time to understand this and decides to help without throwing a fit. This process also reminds me that gender roles can be deeply rooted in cultural traditions and it does cause some bitterness or resentment because it is up to present and future generations to undo this mentality.
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