How Similar Are You to the Adults Who Raised You?

The article I chose was “How Similar Are You to the Adults Who Raised You?”. I feel like I do have a lot in common with my parents, but since I’ve been growing up in America, I’ve definitely picked up some American traits. My parents adapted to some of my American traits, which is why they added more food dishes to their menu. The similarities in our family are definitely a good thing, but when it comes to competition, it can get hectic. I haven’t experienced what Ms. Grose went through, but my parents probably did and I will probably experience that when I become a dad since that’s a common feeling. There are traits that i dont see myself adapting to, which is being extremely cheap. There are benefits to being cheap, but being too cheap to the point of being unhealthy isn’t something I want to do. Ms. Grose should express her feeling with her child with no filter and be straight up open. I feel like when parents aren’t talking openly without a filter, it makes it less meaningful. When my parents addresses similarties, they often add a story to make it memorable.

How Good Is Your Sense of Direction?

My sense of direction honestly is not the best. I frequently rely on google maps to guide me to the places I need to be. I often joke about how bad my sense of direction is by calling myself geographically challenged however If I really think about it, I rarely get lost. I can usually get by, by following street signs but google maps helps me out a lot. If I am going somewhere I’ve never been before then I try to go along with someone who’s been there before. Once I’m shown how to get there depending on whether I was paying as close attention or not I am usually able to get back to that place. Since I’m afraid to get lost I tend to stick to the paths that I know well.

            Getting to and from a place I’ve never been to is sometimes very challenging. I have personally never read a map but I’m pretty sure I would not be able to understand it. Taking directions from someone is not easily processed by me. It takes multiple times of hearing the directions for me to slightly understand where to go and how to get there. So overall I am not great with directions, receiving them or giving them.

Student Opinion The New York Times

The article I chose is How good is you direction? In fact, My sense of direction is not good and not bad. I used to live in a small village when I was a kid. There was no smart phone and road indicator at that time, so the way I tried to find the way back home was remembering the landmark on my way home. For instance, my parents told me that there was a school in front of our village’s entrance. I tried to connect that school with my home, so when I saw that school, I knew I was close to my home. Remembering the landmark assists me cultivate some direction sense in some way. This method helps me do not get lost in most of time.

However, with the development of smart phone, our life become more convenient than before. I become rely on the smart phone map. This is easy a than remembering somewhere that helps me find the way. What I need to do is typing the name of the street on the phone, and the smart phone will tell you the direction. I can find my destination if I follow the instruction. In the other side, this convenient life style also weaken my sense of direction because it makes me do not want to remember the landmark on the street.

In my opinion, having a good sense of direction is still necessary for us. Even though the smart phone will tell us where the place is, but what if the phone is no battery or there is no signal in that area? This kind of situation is hard to predict, so it is still important for us to remember the landmark and cultivate some direction sense.

Student Opinion, NY Times

“What Role Does Religion Play in Your Life?”

As a Muslim, religion plays an important role in my life. I come from a family of Muslims and my parents are religious. To be honest, until the age of 17, I did not take religion seriously because I was raised around a variety of people, such as in school, with friends, and so on, of which only one or two were Muslims. Back in high school, I had this assignment that required me to read a story that was somehow related to Islam. Since then, I’ve been trying to educate myself about my religion and have asked my parents to teach me more about it. Today, it enables me to develop deeper and more meaningful relationships with those around me, as well as to find the right balance between material life and spirituality.

According to Dr. Horwitz’s research, religious belief and religious involvement help working-class teenagers achieve academic success. That is something I am also familiar with because it has actually helped me with my studies. It may sound strange, but whatever I pray for is always answered. For instance, us Muslims always start everything with “Bismillah” (In the name of God) which we will put our trust in God. I am grateful for this and will continue to pray each and every day. Some people claim to be Muslims, but I’ve never seen them do what they’re supposed to do. For me, if I call myself a Muslim, I must follow the beliefs and laws stated in the Holy Book Quran.

How Important Is Mindfulness to Your Daily Life?

At the beginning of the pandemic, for the first time in my life, I started feeling a constant sense of being overwhelmed and anxious, much like the rest of the world. I turned to long walks with my siblings and playing with my new puppy, but that only helped so much. On social media one day, I saw someone preaching how beneficial meditating has become in their life and challenged others to try it out. I downloaded an app and started small with three to five minute meditations every day and sometimes at night to fall asleep and it made the world of difference to me.

Beyond meditation, I’ve started to implement mindfulness in my life as well to “stop and smell the roses” so they say. I’ve started to take my time in doing things rather than rushing through. I realized that I was moving so fast through life that I would have a hard time remembering certain events or just everyday. Discovering different techniques to help with these over the past two years has really been my saving grace with my sanity.

Should Parents Give Children More Responsibility at Younger Ages?

The Netflix show “Old Enough!” is about children ages 2-5 in japan going outside by themselves to do some errands like grocery shopping, going to a local farm, or walking to their grandparent’s house. The author writes that an American version of the show “wouldn’t fly”, and I agree because America is less safer than Japan. Approximately 2,300 children go missing everyday in the U.S. according to justgreatlawyers.com, so I can understand why it wouldn’t be a good to have a show like this in America. There are a lot more dangerous people out here that will harm children if they are seen alone. Kidnappings do happen in Japan, it’s just that a lot more children are kidnapped in the U.S. every year. The article also mentioned that in Japan, it’s safer for kids to cross the street by themselves because the drivers always drive slow in the neighborhoods (mostly because the neighborhoods has small blocks and a lot of intersections). In the U.S, it’s less safer for a child to cross the street by themselves because there are some drivers who speed through neighborhoods and end up hitting pedestrians. That’s why there are speed bumps and signs saying that children play here in some neighborhoods so there will be less accidents.

The writer says she hopes that the Netflix show “Old Enough!” will lead American parents to “consider the possibility that our cultural norms need a reset, or at least a rethink.” I think that some American parents can be overprotective but I don’t think they are being over protective in this case. It wouldn’t be smart to let a 2-5 year old in America run errands by themselves because it isn’t as safe here. I think that the parents start to become over protective if they won’t allow a teenager to gain more responsibility, but I think it makes sense for them to not give a child those types of responsibilities and be protective over them in America. I haven’t seen the show “Old Enough!” yet but I would like to watch it now that I’ve read about it. It would be interesting to watch because I never seen a tv show like this in America.

Where I’m From

I am from hairspray bottles,

from Dawn soap and vinegar.

I am from the loud silence.

I am from the sweet potatoes,

the aloe vera plant; used to heal and nourish.

I am from Mama’s mac n cheese

and foreheads,

From Solae and Journee

And Quest and Kiewan.

I am from the ignorant bliss,

and empathy.

From “Don’t eat and lay down!”

and “moisturize your hair!”.

I am from enjoying the choir,

But not the service.

I’m from the Bronx always missing St Vincent,

Curry Chicken and saltfish.

From the day Ashley ran away,

the bison burgers Mom made that special day,

Denea’s zoo book photoshoot.

I am from the few photos we have, i’ve saved

Kept during the move; envelope the same.

Reuniting with the memories,

We reminisce thankfully.

Where I’m from

I am from Shoes

from Puma and Nike

I am from the Brick house next to the buildings

I am from the bright flower

the source of my family

I am the only American-born Bengali from the family

and get so much love for being the only son

from the Rahman

and Miah’s and Begums

I am from the hard workers

and sleepless nights

From the hustlers

and poverty

I am from the religion of Islam

I’m from Bangladesh

where we enjoy samosa’s and roti’s

From the Family that started Bilash in Bangladesh

the biggest clothing store in the city

and the way it started from one father and the way it passed down

I am from the start of hustlers and businessmen.

Where I’m From

I am from sweaters,

From mac and cheese and ice tea.

I am from the crystal blue lights coming down from my kitchen window.

I am from the rocks, the soil and the earth.

I am from the tried the best they could,

I am from my grandparents, and my uncle.

I am from the promises and the maybes,

From telling the truth and don’t lying.

I am from the nothing to believe in,

Unguided, and led astray.

I am from Haiti and Jamaica,

I am from curry and jerk chicken.

From the sarcastic undertones,

And the ive done this for you.

I am from Brooklyn from Parkslope to Flatbush,

From New York to New Jersey.

Where I’m from by Michelle Myagkaya

I am from Big Squeeze,

from pulp and oranges

I am not from concentrate.

I am from Borjomi,

from sparkling and relaxing

Natural minerals that heal.

I am from mojito,

From lime to raspberry

Refreshing and addicting.

I am from Margaritas,

From salty to sugary

To lemon or lime on top.

I am from vodka,

From strong and bitter

To eating lemon or lime after.

I am from Wine,

From not so sweet to halfway sweet

Flavors to flavors.