The article I chose was “Why is Race so Hard to Talk About? One of the answers stood out to me when a student was asked how ethnic they are. The student responds with “ ‘Ethnic’ is a weird word. In practice, in the U.S., it can mean ‘not black or white’.” This only relates to me to an extent, because I am clearly black, but then there is the question of “Wait so are you just black?”, and I then have to explain which Caribbean island my family is from and how it’s usually never heard of, and while I am American my parents are not. It is interesting how people of color can sometimes be forced to present themselves and show how “ethnic” they are.
Personally, I do not find it hard to talk about race. Since a child, I have noticed that my race is often a topic of discussion in many places. From reading about people like me dying on the news, to strangers being racist in video games, my race is not something I can hide or just chose to ignore for a day so I personally do not find it hard to discuss my race or the race of others. I am able to understand that people of color go through racial biases all the time, unfortunately. However, I understand how talking about race could make someone uncomfortable if they had any experiences or if they know someone who dealt with racism. Talking about race in terms of things like police brutality or the increasing number of hate crimes against the Asian community is hard because violence and hate crimes are sensitive subjects, but there are other things about race that can be talked about. I also think it can be hard for people to discuss this subject in general because they might have their own prejudices that need to be worked on, and when confronted by them it can be uncomfortable. Also, when someone’s privilege is talked about it can make them uncomfortable to the point where they do not want to discuss it, or invalidate someone’s experiences because they themselves “aren’t like that”.
To make conversations about race easier, smoother, and less awkward I would try to be as unbiased as possible, but personally, while I would want the person I am having a conversation about race with to be as comfortable as possible, I do not think it is my responsibility to make race-related conversations easier for people.
At first, I could not think of anyone I would want to have a conversation about race with. The question had me stumped as I began to think about all the race-related tragedies in human history, but I realized I would not want to talk to an aggressor of one of those instances. One person I would want to talk to about race would be Harriet Tubman, and one of the many things I would ask her about would be what was her perception of race as a slave and how did she view herself and others during that time. I would ask if race was also hard to talk about and who were the people talking about it.