As the author of the story “Where Are You Going, Where Have You Been?” poined out ,when questioned about the looming darkness around her works, it is dishonest to write stories thats ignores the cruel reality of our world. We live in a cruel and chaotic world. “Where Are you Going, Where Have You Been?” reflects on the cruel world we lives in. It is not suppose to be a heart warming fairtale. It is a meant to be painful and sombering, and alerting to parents who neglects their children. In the real world, we have people with malicious intend like Arnold Friend who prey on teenage girls. While in fairy tale, every girls meet prince like characters, and live happy every after. That is a huge contrast to the ending of “Where Are You Going, Where Have You Been?”, where Connie, the protagonists, eventually fells for Arnold Friend, who we knows is based on a real life serial killer, and there is no possibility for “happy ever after” with him. In fairytales, protanganists are always rewarded for curiosity, trust, and braveness. In the real world, this could be the opposites. Connie’s curiosity led her to the restaurant, where she met Arnold Friend. Connie’s trust in the appearance of Arnold Friend gave him the opportunity to take advantage of her. Connie’s Braveness, which eventually enable her to step out of her house ,in search of a brand new land, led to her ultimate demise.
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Jiyuan, this is a very good response to the prompt and Korb’s interpretation of the story as a fairytale gone wrong. As you write, there is no “happy ever after.” The promises made in many fairytales are denied in this terrifying, real-life story.
I love that you mentioned the Oates quote regarding the looming darkness in her work and then continued to elaborate on it. In general I would say that literature that explores some of the darker side of the human experience is more interesting or maybe “more real” for me personally. So, when a writer chooses to explore this facet of the world we live in I always find it captivating. I’m not super familiar with a lot of Oates work-in fact I would say that this is the first encounter I’ve had with it personally (I for some reason or another always confuse her with Jane Smiley although as far as I know they’re nothing alike), but I’m a huge fan of one of Oates’ contemporaries Cormac McCarthy-who also chooses to explore the themes of chaos and cruelty in our world. I found the Connie/Arnold story line that you reflect on a similarly sombering part of the tale given how often it shows up in a similar strain in real life all too often.