Jayme Joseph – DB 5: Arguments

1. In the Paradox of Choice, a TEDTalk by Barry Schwartz, Ben Schwartz’s conclusion was, “The key to happiness is low expectations.” To further his argument, he had multiple premises supporting his conclusion, presenting a list of factors that read, “Why Choices Make People Miserable.” Low and behold, one of the items listed was Escalation of Expectations, along with Regret and Anticipated Regret, Opportunity Costs, and Self-Blame – all concepts that bolstered his argument. I agree with Mr. Schwartz. Actually, my motto in life is, “I don’t expect anything from anyone,” and, I must say, I’ve never been happier. If you do someone a favor, you don’t expect one in return, you’re not taken aback when someone’s character doesn’t mirror yours, you’re just free. Good things surprise you, and the bad things don’t cripple you. You don’t get blinded by excitement and understand that everything is a case-by-case basis. There’s no downside, (and it’s not as cynical as it sounds, I promise). The speaker did an incredible job justifying his conclusion with his premises, even giving a relatable diatribe about purchasing jeans. I share his sentiments completely.

2. In the CNBC article, From the ‘perfect’ salary to keeping up with the Joneses, here’s how money really affects your happiness, author Cory Stieg identifies multiple premises, one of which concludes that, “… spending money on experiences makes you happier than items” (Happy Medium). I agree with this conclusion. Whenever I compare the moment of shopping for an expensive item versus a coffee date with a close friend, I veer towards the latter. The moments and thoughts shared between loved ones are intensely heart-warming – they have a longer life in your heart than the thought of buying a car or furniture. Stieg’s premises revolved around quality of life more than financial gain, and he is right. Obviously, no one wants to be shrouded in poverty, but once that’s comfortably escaped and there is no ceiling on earning potential, we have to start looking elsewhere for emotional sustenance. No one told you you’d have to adjust to thriving, did they? In fact, moments where I had the most disposable income, I’ve felt my lowest. It’s a lonely feeling knowing that you’re the only one in your circle who can do something extravagant at that moment, (and I’m talking an extra $500 or so, not thousands). But when you’re consumed with survival and non-stop working, there’s no room for expedition. Great article.