Ruth Chang’s article on “How to Make Hard Choices” posits that certain difficult decisions in life cannot be resolved through a simple weighing of pros and cons. Rather, they involve a fundamental clash between disparate values, priorities, or identities. Chang advocates for the recognition of the limitations of existing frameworks, and the embrace of the freedom to create one’s own. By reframing the question and acknowledging the unique merits and drawbacks of each option, an individual can cultivate a sense of agency and make a choice that aligns with their personal values and aspirations. According to Chang, making a hard choice is not about discerning the “correct” answer, but rather taking ownership of the chosen path. This Ted talk is a crucial resource that warrants wider viewership.
When making a decision identify the decision that is need to be made. Gather up all your information and evaluate alternatives. Moving forward think abut the pros and cons and who will get effected by this decision that has to be made.
