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Reading Reflection #1 — Nohelia Gonzalez

“Feminism Is For Everybody – Passionate Politics” by Bell Hooks really puts in the perspective answering questions we probably have all been wondering. Just generally: What REALLY does Feminism mean?. I love that Bell Hooks introduces why she wrote this book in the means of inviting just about anyone into her reading by making it relatable. From her experiences and understanding that Feminism is viewed as anti-men. I decided to ask a few co workers surrounding me what their first thought of feminism was. Many used similar words. “Equality” “Men equal women” “Anti-Men” . And Bell Hooks wants us, yes, us, to understand that it is more than woman vs men. It’s breaking the division between humans! Starting with the main issue: sexism.

Bell Hooks states “Practically, it is a definition which implies that all sexist thinking and action is the problem, whether those who perpetuate it are female or male, child or adult” (Hooks, 1). Referring to her own definition of feminism in a previous book she wrote, she is teaching us that sexism is a root issue that does not come from just men like many would imply, but anyone! INCLUDING women.

More than our gender roles, there is so much more that come with these divisions. All the things that “separate” us in society. Included in those are culture and race. As I read about the black women within feminist groups, I sadly am not surprised to learn that their place in the movements had to be fought twice as hard! “Even before race became a talked about issue in feminist circles it was clear to black women (and to their revolutionary allies in struggle) that they were never going to have equality within the existing white supremacist capitalist patriarchy” (Hooks, 4).

Following all these beliefs that Feminism equals angry women wanting equal rights to men leads me to my question well where does that leave the individuals that do not refer to themselves as either or?

Sex & Gender 101 was such an interesting read. It really puts into detail the challenging questions most people have regarding genders and sex and the differences and what each means and this article helped make it easy to understand.I loved the categories it was broken down to, I find it an easy way to be able to explain it to someone in the future that is easily self explanatory: Gender assignment: The gender you were assigned by basically your family based off body features.. Gender identity: The gender you choose to identify yourself as. and Gender expression: The gender you choose to express yourself as, perhaps by style, hairdo, personality, etc.

Nohelia Gonzalez- Discussion #2

Prior to reading the first chapter of “Feminism is for Everybody- Passionate Politics” by Bell Hooks, my thoughts and opinions on feminism were as simple as equality for all. Though I am not a consistent activist, I always seemed to agree with the protests and general posts regarding feminism. A fault on my behalf is not taking action to make a change on such topics- avoiding the troubles. Oblivion may be bliss but it does not take away the injustices we face. Myself, as a queer woman, find myself enraged when I hear the cruel reality of the standards some individuals (both men and women) still believe against women, races, sexuality, culture, etc. I just want to yell: “CAN YOU JUST LET EVERYONE BE HAPPY WITH THEMSELVES!?”. Unfortunately, to avoid anger, I catch myself avoiding it, therefore lacking knowledge of what exactly feminism is all about. At least in details.

Bell Hooks begins to make it simple for me in a way that makes sense. In a way that I agree. A movement not only consisting of enraged women like many may believe, but simply humans, in favor of equal rights. To create a future world where sexism, racism, and sexual exploitation is not an issue we continue to face.

Following the reading of Bell Hooks, I enjoyed the reading “Sex and Gender 101”. As a New Yorker experiencing this city, I have met all types of people. Rather interesting, in the last couple of years, I have caught myself googling and teaching myself about different genders and sexual orientations. There is so much to learn! I loved the categories it was broken down to, I find it an easy way to be able to explain it to someone in the future that is easily self explanatory: Gender assignment: The gender you were assigned by basically your family based off body features.. Gender identity: The gender you choose to identify yourself as. and Gender expression: The gender you choose to express yourself as, perhaps by style, hairdo, personality, etc.

To conclude, I would love to share my current identity. Though I agree labels are not needed, I have been pretty set and stoned on mine : Cisgender female- bisexual.

Discussion #1

Greetings! My name is Nohelia Gonzalez (she/her). Born and raised New Yorker riding the waves of change within our city. I currently live in Brooklyn with my girlfriend of 7 years and wish to get married and have kids in the near future. I am currently enrolled at BMCC majoring in early childhood education. I juggle school and a full time job as a Toddler Teacher. I have been working with children of all ages for about ten years, plus the added experience of being an older sister. People tell me I am lucky to have found my passion in working with children, and although I am confident about that decision, I am still indecisive of which path to take with that, but as of now, enjoying the journey and letting the todd-nadoes (tornado toddlers) bring smiles and laughter to my every day life. On my free time, I enjoy attending concerts and raves (it’s a yes from me for any form of live music and entertainment). I enjoy traveling and experiencing new adventures. I look forward to this class and having a space to learn and openly talk about challenging topics that are important in our real world.