In what ways does your gender identity go against the binary norm and in what ways does it fit the binary norm?
Moving beyond the gender binary for Alok talks about experiences as a gender-nonconforming artist. In this article Alok expresses how we need to not stop viewing gender in two ways which is normatively masculine or feminine. We must view gender in a creative form of expression and beyond a person’s gender. Alok discusses how gender preconceptions are dangerous and harmful. Many gender non conforming people face discrimination for being their true self and being comfortable in their own skin. Alok wants readers to address people how they want to be and accept people for who they are. Without feeling they fear for their life every time they step foot outside or being judged by others.
Identifying as a female has gone against the binary norm because I chose to comfortably over uncomfortably. Growing up I played basketball and mostly wore sweatpants and jeans. These two things led people to question me on if I’m gay or straight. I was always confused on why people assumed I was gay just because I chose to wear a certain clothing that makes me feel more comfortable than something uncomfortable. But I then came to a realization that social media has painted a picture in people’s heads that in order to be a female or girly you must wear skirts, dresses, and like the color pink. This is not true, this is a double standard problem today, many people believe women are not supposed to do things that men are doing like playing basketball or football would make you look “manly”. Women can’t wear certain clothes that men wear because it would make them look more masculine looking. I honestly believe as long as you’re comfortable in your skin and choose to do what you want in life nobody should judge you based on what you wear or look.
Being a female fits the binary norm because people are more used to the basic male and female gender. Now that there are different gender identity’s many people are not accepting it because they are used to old ways and old teachings.
