This week’s reading and the movie that I watched were really eye-opening for me in many different ways. I felt that the reading “How To Think Like An Activist” by Wendy Syfret, really supported the film I watch which is “Girls connected” by Koen Suidgeest. The movie was very powerful and inspiring. In the Movie, Five teenage girls use their individual strengths to tackle gender discrimination and violence in their own communities. Each of them inspires their own people to transform their own lives.
Josi is from Peru according to her when she was a teenager she has seen so many teenagers getting pregnant. And she wondered how she could help. To prevent or to at least diminish this issue. She invited her community with her friends to a park to give them advice on how they can take care of themselves and how they can make their own decisions too. She advises them how they can use protection to prevent from getting pregnant and everyone can decide it for themselves. She also told them how it’s not just women’s responsibility but also man and told all the women to inform men about it.
Latifa is from Bangladesh according to her when she was twelve years old they try to get her married to someone. She told them that she rather die than getting married. She thinks that it was wrong when a girl marries as a child and she can never fulfill their dreams. One of the mothers said she doesn’t know why she tried to marry her daughter off because she doesn’t have a father, brother, and no house. Her mother is scared that’s why she wanted her to get married. But Latifa, came and stopped it and said when the right time comes she will get married now it’s too early. If anyone bothers them, they can call her immediately and she will take aggressive action. Some girls are married off before the age of 16th. They are forced into marriage by the poverty of their parents. She knows how miserable it feels when you don’t have anything to eat. About two years ago when she was a student of class six an attempt was made to marry her off because they had a shortage of money and didn’t have enough food to eat. She feels that she’s been very lucky because her mom stood by her because her mother was a child bride. She came to realize that she didn’t want her daughter to go through what she did. She wants her daughter/Latifa to be independent before she gets married. Latifa made a call to her teacher and around 10 PM the administration came to her house and a court was set right up there. They said that she wants to continue her study and before the 18th if anyone tries to marry her off without her consent would be arrested. So, she come to realize that if she could stop her marriage she could do it for others too.
Ghazal is from Jordan according to her, she doesn’t know if everyone sees what she’s doing. As being liberal and dangerous. Everyone accuses her of encouraging other girls to overstep boundaries. They consider the freedom that girls ask for out of the question. She was always first when it comes to doing things ordinary. She loves doing recycling and she was the first girl to play football at her school. A lot of the girls set boundaries for themselves. They do certain things and not other things that are considered for boys. But she believes anyone can do it. It’s just that it’s taboo to overstep the rule they set for themselves.
Ayesha is from India according to her girls are not allowed to go anywhere. They are confined to their homes. Girls are not allowed to do anything. Girls can become more confident. Move ahead in life and not fear anything. She learns boxing. She has loved Karate since she was a child and she wanted to learn since she was born. She was inspired by her brother.
Michelle is from Keny according to her a lot of girls feel like their place is just in the home. Girls shouldn’t study engineering that’s not for girls. Stay at home. Take care of the kids. Cook. She was able to brave these stereotypes and that is what she strives to pass on. Being a girl from Kenya is like you shouldn’t be really outspoken. Girls shouldn’t talk too much about what they think. For example, lack of role models and a lack of people to look up to which is a really big issue. All the girls have all it takes to get to where they went to get but they just don’t believe in themselves enough. Michelle is a teacher who helps girls from age 12-30 to achieve their dreams. At a point, her family was going through financial issues, and sometimes they would go to sleep hungry but Michelle was the one to stay strong and overcome this.
My classmate “Hillary” posted a snapshot which was very powerful to me. The post says that “Girls just wanna have fundamental human rights” And I completely agree with it. We need to make this normalized and make sure that girls in our community have all the rights as equivalent to men. Only then we can be very powerful as a community/country. Also, my class made “Keven Kimble” posted a snapshot where it says Dignity respect a justice for all. Yes, we need to make society equal for everyone in this world. Everyone has the ability to achieve things equally and we need to let them do it.