Ihab Gomaa Week 15 Discussion

I believe that growing up is indeed a significant theme in both stories. As Bettelheim suggests, “The message of these stories is that oedipal entanglements and difficulties may seem to be unsolvable, but by courageously struggling with these emotional familial complexities, one can achieve a much better life than those who are never beset by severe problems.” (Bettelheim 199) I think Snow White becomes more adaptable and resilient when she is forced to leave her home and find a new life. Similarly, Connie encounters a frightening and manipulative character named Arnold Friend, which makes her realize the harsh realities and complexities of the world. From my perspective, the act of confronting these adversities and impediments is a vital component of their individual development. Snow White and Connie undergo arduous experiences that facilitate their maturation while also imparting upon them a profound comprehension of themselves, others, and the world. In each story, growing up is an immense undertaking. Bettelheim’s analysis says that when you’re becoming an adult, it’s important to face tough stuff and get through it.” To survive, they must develop initiative and realize that their only recourse lies in intelligent planning and acting. They must exchange subservience to the pressures of the id for acting in accordance with the ego. Goal-directed behavior based on intelligent assessment of the situation in which they find themselves must take the place of wish-fulfilling fantasies: the substitution of the bone for the finger, tricking the witch to climb into the oven.” (Bettelheim 162) Snow White has to leave her home and start a new life, which makes her stronger and better at dealing with change. Connie meets a scary guy named Arnold Friend, and it helps her see how hard life can be. I think that going through tough times helps Snow White and Connie grow up. They learn important things from their experiences, and it helps them understand themselves and the world better.