Ihab Gomaa Week 14 Discussion

The story, “Where Are You Going, Where Have You Been?” examines how societal and personal pressures affect choices.  Connie is a teenage girl who lacks self-awareness and is infatuated with her appearance. She makes a snap judgment on Arnold, a man who shows up at her house while she is alone at home, based solely on his appearance, not realizing that he has malicious motives. Arnold uses his knowledge of Connie’s family, acquaintances, and secrets to influence her and control her. Connie is forced to face the effects of her limited worldview as she loses her sense of self and grows frightened and vulnerable. According to my view, the story has a real feel, with Arnold’s seeming omniscience about Connie’s life coming from his compulsive and stalker-like actions. His knowledge of her family’s movements and activities can be traced to him watching Connie’s residence and following her family before approaching her while she was alone, not to some magical factor. This unsettling story is far from a fairy tale; rather, it serves as a terrifying warning about the possible risks that can result from actual circumstances and interactions with predatory people. Also The book serves as a warning about the perils of naivete and superficiality and can be seen as a cautionary tale about the world we live in, which includes young women like Connie.

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