“There is no hierarchy of oppression,” made me consider how some groups benefit from oppression. First, I’d like to point out that Lorde states that she is a black woman in the first two lines of the article, then goes on to say, “I am trying to become the strongest person I can become to live the life I have been given and to help effect change toward a liveable future for this earth and for my children.” That, I believe, is part of the problem. Black women shouldn’t have to be strong. In black heterosexual relationships, we quite often see in society that the black woman has to hold everything together. The black woman is expected to run the household, support her husband, and do so much more. And, while everyone is required to do so, it’s a lot different when the men of your race don’t respect you. We’re supposed to cater to black men who truly hate us. This isn’t just in heterosexual relationships, as I’ve noticed. The trope of the strong black woman is everywhere. I’ve noticed that white women can be delicate and fragile, whereas black women must be strong. Most importantly, it is important for black women to be strong for black men. I think this is a taboo subject because black women are not allowed to talk about their feelings; instead, they are expected to bottle it all up and deal with whatever life throws at them. This, I think, plays a huge role in why so many black people suffer for years with untreated mental illnesses.
I agree with Lorde when she says that oppression and intolerance of difference come in a variety of shapes and forms. They can be very homophobic and transphobic in the black community. Despite our own oppression, many black people believe it is acceptable to target and discriminate against LGBTQ people. As a result, when I read “Oh, but being Black is NORMAL!” says a voice from the Black community, I wasn’t surprised. It made me think about how unfair they can be to LGBTQ people, despite the fact that they are both minorities. While these issues are vastly different, they go hand in hand, which is why I agree that an attack on the LGBTQ community should be treated as a black issue, just as an attack on black people should be treated as an LGBTQ issue.