I loved reading both articles this week as I feel like I see examples of these things all the time. It is incredibly difficult to be mixed, and people will constantly invalidate you. It is sad that people would gatekeep you from your culture in such a way. In a sense, if these people were right and you aren’t really a member of the ethnicity you’re mixed with, then you belong nowhere. It’s sad and doesn’t make any sense to me, but that’s how mixed people are treated. You cannot be a true member, but you can still experience all the racism.
The article covering identity politics reminded me of all the times I’ve heard people talk about race in the sense that if you bring it up, you’re part of the problem. It’s an awful way to feel, especially coming from a white person who doesn’t have the same experience and benefits from a lot of their ancestor’s actions toward people of color. It’s essential to talk about and recognize these things if we want to make anything better. If you claim to not see a person’s race or do not want to see their race, you’re not seeing them for who they are if they identify with that.