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Melissa Valle Reflection #8

Melissa Valle Reflection #8 

This week’s readings on the “The Politics of Housework” and “The Myth of the Vaginal Orgasm” tells the facts about women on how they were oppressed in their own home and that the men played a big part in that oppression. At that time, the men thought it was the duty of the women to take care of the housework and they go to work. It is not hard for a man to help in the home. Why is it that so men who are asked to do something like wash dishes, mop the floor, clean the bathroom becomes a thing of masculinity, like if it makes them less of a man. Who made this up? Currently everyone in my home does some chores from smallest to oldest. There are no regulations regarding whether you are the (girl) or (mother) so you two must do everything in my home, everyone can cook and clean. I raised boys to help not to take advantage of anyone in any way. My boys help me and my daughter.  

In “The Myth of Vaginal Orgasm” the read explained how male did not allow the females to feel the same pleasure as them during intercourse. The men only cared about themselves being pleasured not focusing on the woman’s orgasm. It is sad to know that women had to fake orgasms, and some might fake it today. 

Melissa Valle Dis #9

Melissa Valle Discussion #9 

Womens liberation is often thought of as a movement of the 1960’s and 1970’s, one that has been accomplished and is now a thing of the past. Womens liberation is still as impressive today and the women who participated in the movement are still making history. A liberated woman is an empowered woman. She is free to pursue her own interests, ambitions, and goals in her life. She is free to be herself and not be defined by her role as a wife or mother. She is free to be strong and speak her mind. 

These two articles show that “the personal is political” because women were being portrayed as needing to have intimacy in their relationship. “The personal is political” is a phrase use during the 1960s and 1970s to express any kind of power in relations not just in government or elective officials. This is in the article where women must compromise to either fake an organism just not to make their partner feel any less by hurting their feelings.  

In the article of The Myth of the Vaginal Orgasm” another example that shows that liberated women are important and show the personal is political if women are not sexually attracted to men these men end up shaming or mentally abusing them. In my psychology class I read that Freud’s recommended the cure for women who were frigid was to put them in a mental institution because they were “suffering” within themselves and failed at being normal woman. This can be based on personal, politics because when a woman broke their roles of being a homemaker society believed that this was a mental illness that needed to be cured. I cannot even imagine living that life.  

Melissa.Valle Reflection #7

The Triangle Shirtwaist Factory fire, which occurred on March 25, 1911, was the deadliest industrial disaster in New York City’s history. How sad that this had to happen to those girls and women, they were trapped. The lack of safety measures, such as sprinklers, in the building is evidence of how the owners treated the workers. It is a tragedy that these brave women and girls did not evacuate the burning building safely. We should never forget the bravery of the workers who fought for better working conditions. In short, I think the ERA is a great idea. I think that it is long overdue, and that women should have equal rights in this country. I think that it will help to make women feel more secure, and more likely to take risks and pursue their dreams. The current legal system is unfair to women, and the ERA would help to change that. i hope all these historical issues come to and end and make the changes that we all have been fighting for its about time for some change.

Melissa.Valle Discussion #8

The fight for labor rights and the fight for women’s suffrage are two of the most pivotal movements in American history. The right to vote and the right to bargain collectively have the power to directly impact the lives of millions of people. When women gained the right to vote, they leveraged that power to advocate for equal pay, workplace protections, and labor rights for women. Today, women’s labor rights are still synonymous with women’s rights.Women’s labor rights are fundamentally connected to women’s rights. Women’s rights are the rights of women to be free from discrimination, to be treated with dignity and respect, and to have equal rights and opportunities with men. Because women are primarily responsible for providing for the needs of the family, their rights are often intertwined with the rights of others to be free from oppression. Through their labor, women have traditionally contributed to the American economy, which has allowed them to make decisions concerning the allocation of their time and resources.

Melissa Valle Reflection #6

Reading the story about the Macho paradox made me realize that for decades, the debate over pornography has played out mostly between the pro-sex feminist camp and the anti-pornography feminist camp. However, the landscape is changing. Sex-positive feminists are trying to claim the mantle of feminism and are claiming that anti-porn feminists are anti-sex or anti-women. At the same time, men who seek to challenge the dominant, male-centric sexology of pornography are also calling themselves feminists.

Melissa. Valle Discussion 7

To many people, the fight for women’s suffrage is synonymous with the fight for women’s rights. It is often forgotten, however, that the women’s suffrage movement was also a fight for racial equality. Many of the white women who led the suffrage movement were outspoken supporters of racial equality who worked alongside Black women to fight for women’s suffrage. Today, we are still learning the stories of Black women in the suffrage movement. 

The fight for women’s rights has been one of the defining social movements of the past century. The story of the women’s suffrage movement, which culminated in the passage of the 19th Amendment to the U.S. Constitution, has been told and retold over the years. But the story has typically focused on the experiences of white women in the movement, leaving untold the experiences of Black women. This is a significant omission, given the vital role that Black women played in the suffrage movement. 

When most people think of the women’s suffrage movement, they think of Susan B. Anthony, Elizabeth Cady Stanton, and other white women who led the fight for women’s voting rights. But Black women played a significant role in the fight for women’s rights, too. In fact, some of the most important strategizing that led to the passage of the 19th Amendment—which gave women the right to vote—was done by Black women. The untold stories of the Black women in the suffrage movement are important because they help us better understand the history of the women’s rights movement and because they can inspire others, especially young women of color, to get involved in the fight for women’ 

Melissa. Valle Journal #5

Activism has played a powerful role in social movements for many generations today and will become more powerful for the next generations to come. Fighting for women’s equality, fighting against racism, sexism transphobia and many more. When fighting for social change you must spread the word and inform the public. If you are an activist, you must educate the public regarding what is going on and what they can do to help build a strong community. They must be able to discuss the information and focus on the people’s attention to grasp what you are dishing out. We want the people to listen to want to make a difference and make changes that will benefit the world and the next generations. 

Regarding the Me to Movement in recent years, it is crazy how this was mentioned about 11 years ago or so by Tarana Burke, she organized the way to support women and single girls as they shared the sexual violence they experienced. Look how long it took for any recognition. At least is has been acknowledged and there are some changes in the process. Marshsa P. Johnson is someone who fights for the LGBT and transgender rights. She has fought for better health care for the people who are just like any other human being, why treat them any different. It sucks that the health care gets to decide who get health care especially if they have different bodies that do not represent who they Truely are. I am sure it may seem like it is taking a lifetime to make these changes and it may make you want to give up on the battles but be strong move forward full force. There have been changes and it a process so it I worth the fight even if it is a lengthy process. 

Melissa. Valle Discussion #6

Melissa. Valle Discussion #6

How do I define activism after doing the reading and watching the film?  I define activism as a community or a group of people coming together to fight for what they believe in and their rights, in making a difference in the world.

The movie that I watched was Crip Camp a Disability Revolution. It took place in the early 1970’s and it was a camp for teenagers with disabilities.   Who were facing a future shaped by isolation, discrimination and institutionalization.  The camp was named Camp Jened, was located in the Catskills and it was only for handicapped teens.  At this camp no one was discriminated against, because they all were the same to each other.  They all would act just like themselves and have a great time.  Thy felt comfortable at the camp because no one would ridicule them.  The counselors had them all interact in the activities.  When it was time for them to go home they would all be sad because they know they would have to wait another year to feel like they belong and important. Judy Heumann was a wheelchair user she was a counselor at the camp.  She then became an activist for the Independent Living Movement.  She and her disabled colleges risked their lives by sleeping on the floors without medical necessities.  She wanted people with her to demand what they needed.  Judy Heumann has improved accessibility and opportunities for an estimate 56 million people. It’s crazy how they had no way of traveling or anything that was wheelchair accessible she had to get into a van in order to get anywhere with her wheelchair. She struggled and fought to secure disability civil rights in the united states.  Just so they can live a fuller life and have their dignity.  She even fought for the train stations to have wheel chair accessibility.   She even became a disability rights advocate and served in the Clinton and Obama Administration.

I have never been involved in any activism.  But that doesn’t mean that I have no interest in it.  List a few ways that you can realistically engage in activism around gender justice?  We can share and listen to each other try to recruit because we are better in number. Teach the children and adult the meaning of gender justice. We can ensure equal access regarding education.  Empower each other end violence and sexual assault on women. Oh I can go on forever.

Melissa.Valle Reflection #4

Reflection #4 

My reflection on the readings is as follows. Allan G. Johnson speaks about the stereotypes and the misconceptions of the word patriarchy. Also, some people confuse the difference of patriarchy and the system as an individual. The system of oppression cannot be fully separated. We are shaped by this system and shape society. That we do not even realize that we participate in this system unconsciously. Obviously, we did not create this system that we perpetuate. We need to understand that we have a choice to make a difference and influence the choice to change it, we can do it numbers together. 

Audre Lorde addresses intersectionality, the system of oppression overlaps and con not fully be separated. There are so many people that are oppressed, and we do not even know it. I am sure we have all experienced it one way or another. But that does not mean that we cannot come together and bring real change. Andre lets us know that no matter what group she belongs to taught her that oppression and intolerance come in all shapes, sexes, colors, and sexuality. These two readings have made me understand a little more about the meanings and what the writers are trying to get across. Being more educated and having a better understanding can help others. 

Melissa.Valle Discussion #5

Melissa. Valle Discussion #5 

The 1st reading “Patriarchy, the system” educated and explained to me the meaning of the word.  The understanding is that the word patriarchy is related to men because it identifies that all men are automatically oppressive. Johnson made me realize that there are stereotypes and misconceptions of the word that the world has about the word. T. Maybe because there are many distinct levels of meaning. People will misinterpret what you might be saying. We are all shaped by the system and shaped by society. Knowing that we did not create the system our existence has perpetuated it. We all have played a part in this system without realizing it, subconsciously or unconsciously. I think if we all become more educated and realize what Is going on we can all make a change but only if we speak up about it. How about we educate ourselves and make our own system of educating people on the right meaning? 

“There is no Hierarchy of Oppressions” Audre Lorde is so smooth with her writing.  Audre speaks about oppression and the intolerance that comes in all types of forms and shapes. To be free from oppression one needs to take on all the forms of oppression. Audre states “I simply do not believe that one aspect of myself can profit from the oppression of any other part of my identity.”  Any one of us can be oppressed but that does not make us any less important to be heard. My understanding she is explaining that intersectionality meaning “because you are a minority you get special treatment in the eyes of some” These are all aspects of identify and these identities can overlap. Audre Lorde educates us that all oppression’s must be recognized and fought against. Oppression is all around us, it is important to understand a person’s feelings regardless of what they are.