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Jessica Tapia Reflection 3

In the article “Oppression,” Marilyn Frye, Frye discusses how a birdcage symbolizes the systematic oppression of women, which means that women are consistently in the cage as well as people of color, LGBT, and disabled individuals. Frye believes women have been oppressed for some time without realizing it. The thought of men holding the door is like keeping something against women. My mother raised her boys to hold the door and do the heavy lifting around the home because, ultimately, men are more potent than women. When I read the article, it made me feel as though she was analyzing the thoughts of men, women, and people of ethnic groups and backgrounds. Suffering can be a feeling that we all can relate to, mental or physical suffering. We see oppression when we are discriminated against by our skin color, being a woman, or not being heterosexual. I can’t entirely agree with Frye about men not being oppressed. I believe men have been oppressed as well. Men are shown to be hard workers; they typically are not allowed to show emotions because they look weak. After all, they are men, and the thought of expecting the most out of them is because they are the primary breadwinners of the household.

In the article “White Privilege,” Peggy McIntosh Peggy speaks about “As a white person, I realize that I have been taught about racism as something which puts others at a disadvantage, but had been taught not to see ones of its corollary aspects, white privilege, which puts me at an advantage.” Peggy conveys that being white puts her right on top of everything without doing anything. She is straightforward about her feelings and explains that white privilege is like how males are not taught about male privilege. The division is between white and non-white people. More people should read this article because she is true to herself and her power as a white woman. As for people of color, everything comes so much more difficult.

Jessica Tapia Discussion 2

In the essay, “Feminist Politics Where We Stand” bell hooks defines feminism as: “a movement to end sexism, sexist exploitation, and oppression. The author wants to convey the misconception about feminism. Typically other men want to describe feminism as women that are angry, lesbian and hate men. In reality, feminism is the sole message of equal rights. Sexism continues to happen to this day. The discussion is not about equal rights anymore it’s more about, okay you want to do what men do then don’t expect to go on date and have the door be opened to you, don’t expect the man to pay for your meal, more of the chivalry aspect of it. I believe if you want to set expectations you ask for it from the beginning and if one chooses to “pay”, they also have the right to do so. Men choose to miss the point of allowing women to obtain jobs that you don’t usually find women working. To get paid the same amount that men would get paid. Giving the overall choice for a woman to succeed as men do. Bell Hooks states, “Imagine living in a world where there is no domination, where females and males are not alike or even always equal, but where a vision of mutuality is the ethos shaping interaction” (pg.5). The quote resonates with me because imagine living in a world where no one group dominates another or discriminates against one another. Everyone needs to see this change for the better and the future leaders of the world.  

As for the article “Sex & Gender 101,” I want to be honest about being more naive about how people identified themselves. This article was enlightening and broke down more about what sets sex and gender apart. Allowing children from a young age to grow up to be themselves without judgment is a good start. Your identity should be a process throughout your lifetime. It is difficult to say or feel what you’re most comfortable in. That alone does take time and experience. This happens with your sexual preferences and gender identity. The thought of raising a gender-neutral child could be a way to help society accept not everything or everyone needs to be labeled. We all should be more open to what we choose to be and be okay with it. I believe this will help not to set others apart but more so unite people. Being able to be more educated in the matter can overall help the acceptance be easier.

Journal 1

The belief of one being born a certain sex and gender was once the only thought I had. One couldn’t identify themself as gender neutral. This all based on my ignorance around the subject. In the article“ Sex & Gender 101”, by Kyl Myers explains, raising zoomer in a gender- creative way relies on the fact that sex and gender are not the same thing. For example some people are assigned male at birth but identify as women. Aswell as some are assigned female at birth but identify as men. Males have XY chromosomes, females have XX chromosomes, and there are also several different sex chromosome variations. There are some intersex variations that are apparent at birth, others become apparent at puberty, while others may go undiscovered throughout a person’s lifetime. In my own experience I have seen one of my good friends identify themselves more male like, I tried to encourage them to go with the flow and didn’t take the thought as how they identified themselves. A child should be able to identify themselves as they see fit. The way we can allow our children to be comfortable being who they want to be is showing them that they will be accepted no matter who they are. Making sure they can be allowed to show the opposite from what society believes how male or females should behave. Understanding this as a child might be hard but incorporating acceptance can be a start. I would also encourage this topic to come up in future classrooms. There are children terrified to feel different but there are ways we can help them know that being different is okay. We need to empower children to be themselves. I wish I had a better understanding as a child but I can only continue to learn and understand all perspectives.