This week’s readings were interesting. It made me think more about how I saw household chores when I lived with my partner and how things were seen before or even now when it comes to a sexual encounter. In the reading “The Politics of Housework” by Pat Mainardi, Pat explains how there is never an equal distribution of household chores. One always wants to do less because of not being “good at it,” which is always a male response—leaving the female to do all the household chores and leading to arguments because one does more than the other. Pat mentions that women are conditioned to be the only ones capable of performing household chores. Plenty of commercials lures women to follow the best product to keep their floors shiny. When I lived with my ex-partner, I recall that we naturally divided chores. There was nothing that we both didn’t like or did better. That might be the case with my next partner, but I can see that more people deal with this issue sometime in their lives.
The reading “The Myth of the Vaginal Orgasm” by Anne Koedt speaks about how male partners only care for their orgasm and don’t allow their female partners to feel the same orgasm. Women indeed need to be stimulated differently than their male partners. Women tend not to be outspoken when it comes to their own needs. The thought behind it is that women were used to bare children and tending to their husbands. They weren’t asked what they needed or what felt good for them. Once, my curiosity came out to ask my grandmother why she had 12 children. She responded that she had no choice. She was baring more children to make my grandfather happy, and it could potentially lead them to make more money because there would be more hands to help on the ranch.