After reading this week’s material, I can say that a liberated woman is being able to do anything she wants, with the person (whether of any gender) who satisfies her. Since, in the reading of Mainardi Pat “The Politics of Housework” we see how men are talked about, they do not take much importance to what housework is. They think it’s not a real job, and that it’s a “hobby” that they don’t want to go through but want their wives to do. That is why it is connected with the fact of being able to be a liberated woman, since these taboos still exist where women and only women must do certain tasks when men see it as very tedious. A liberated woman is able to do anything without it being a duty, that is, if a woman wants to do housework, let her do it, but if she doesn’t want to and wants to work or just wants to let the housework Make her partner, it’s fine too. The liberation of a woman is to be able to have the option to choose whatever she wants without waiting for another person to decide for her, it is to be able to have the right to decide her life path and what she wants to do with it.
Therefore, it is extremely important, because being able to know and see any liberated woman, choosing her own path and options, is being able to realize that genders are now treated equally and not just by stereotypes or categorizations. It is being able to create the change that all women have been waiting for a long time, without listening to criticism of any caliber. Even in Koedt Anne’s article, “The myth of the Vaginal Orgasm” we see how it is being stereotyped, saying that women are more “frigidity” and that she does not reach orgasm because of her own frigidity. We see how they are being stereotyped by the same ideology of what is correct that a normal woman should be and what is not, based on how her level of satisfaction is created by herself, when the man only focuses on his own satisfaction without caring about that of her. It is very curious to me, how even after knowing that the woman has more pleasure when she focuses on her clitoris, but even so there are cases in which the man does not care about that fact and only continues to rely on his own pleasure. It is very sad to know how women can be victims of oppression, even sexually.
This shows that “the personal is political” because as in the two articles, we saw how the stereotypes are mostly based on the fact that a man has imposed these rules for each woman. Despite the fact that it is not a state rule and completely safe, it is indirectly in this way, since if you do not follow this stereotype you will be criticized until you do what the rule imposed. Also, I can say that it is political, as I remember while studying “social studies” on the topic of world war. I remember they showed us the propaganda of that time, saying things like “if your husband goes to war, you should stay home and help him with housework to show your support”. Which gives us a clear example of how politics can also get into the personal thoughts of each gender, implementing this ideology that women should be at home.
Hey Food, thanks for sharing your take on what you think l liberated women are, and I have the same take on your opinion. Women should have the option of what they want to do when being housewives or moneymakers. Speaking up is hard for women who have grown up seeing and being told they have to comply and satisfy their husbands because that is what women do. I have always disagreed with that thought, but being strong enough to express what you like and dislike is what will help engrave the new way women want moving forward
Hi! I appreciate that you mentioned how housework is not considered significant by many men. Since in their view it is not real job, they would not do it. However, even those who admit its equivalency to other jobs, still view housework as a job that fits only women (because they are so god and natural in it) to further relief themselves of such duty.
Hi Food,
Thank you for sharing I enjoyed reading your response. I agree with you on your take of the liberated woman; I also believe that the liberated woman does as she pleases without trying to conform to societies rules nor does she listen to the opinions of those around her. I also agree with you on the idea that politics involving propaganda can get into the personal thoughts of each gender and make them second guess themselves way more.
Hi Food, I enjoy that you bring up housework, and a liberated woman has the right to do things that aren’t a duty. Housewives isn’t a job for women, if a woman is exhausted and wants to rest she has the rest to rest while her partner does the chaos. I think we should normalize that housework isn’t just for women but this goes for everyone especially if they leave in a one bedroom apartment.
Can a liberated woman exist without the women’s liberation movement being intact? I think the idea of a liberated woman is false, it’s saying that if a woman has sex freely and has a career, she is free. However these readings, as you recognized, are clearly showing that men put up quite a defense to the need for equality and shared space with a woman. To me, it’s almost as if men came up with the slogan of a liberated woman.