It is impressive how the patriarchal system is so rooted in us and influences our behavior, thoughts, and ideas. It is not until we question our day to day actions and take the time to reflect on gender, gender roles, sexism, etc. that we notice how misogynistic our actions can be, no matter our gender identity. I thought that everyone was questioning this kind of stuff until I had a conversation with my mom about other members of our families and how they are still acting according to their gender roles without even questioning it. For example, my cousin is 30 years old and still lives with my aunt, there’s nothing wrong with that, but the only house chore that he constantly does is take the trash out. He doesn’t cook, he doesn’t clean, and my aunt is completely okay with that. In my opinion, if they both live in the same house, they should collaborate equally in house chores. In the conversation with my mom, we also discussed some of our behaviors that are rooted in the patriarchy. In my case, one of them probably is still focusing on the beauty of women more than on other qualities. However, women are gorgeous and there’s nothing I can do about it, but it’s important to not value beauty over values, morals, intelligence, etc. It’s vital to keep thinking about our behaviors and ideas, try to recognize when there is some internalized sexism or misogyny in our actions, and work to change them.
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Catherine, Thank you for sharing, and I agree with you that the patriarchal system influences us one way or another. I relate to the fact that family members still are acting according to their gender role. I’m Mexican, and I can tell you there are a lot of men that just because they are men, they can do as they wish, and the women need to do housewife work, listen, and wait for the “man” of the house to come home. Indeed something that I never agreed with, and that’s why I’m still not married, or maybe it is just me, but marriage is not as unique as it used to be, and I am very hesitant. I seek equality, and it’s hard to find it in a relationship nowadays
Hi Catherine, I agree it is wild when you actually
notice how embedded the influences of society are in us it is specifically noticeable in some older people who still carry the beliefs they came with !!
Hello Catherine,
I admire that you took a step back to analyze what contributions you put to the Patriarchy because whether we acknowledge it or not we play a part in it. I can definitely relate to the situation of your cousin and aunt because i have many family members that are male and still being treated like kids because their mother thinks that a man should always be taken care of. Thank you for sharing you thoughts.