In matters of identity politics, circumstances of people not being aware of their default in cases like that of the blond lady is indirectly common. It is a bit a similar to instances where people or specifically white people stating that they are unaware of privileges only made favorably to them. The blond is proclaiming her views about how we should avoid bringing the identity of personalities into issues, whereas it is undoubtedly visible, and that society treats people differently based on those identities. Our identities are what determines are roles in society whether we want it that way or not.  Its by which some individuals are treated as very important people and others treated as nuisance.  

“Too black to be Latina” explores many instances where black people are being doubted if they state they are Hispanic or Latina. They are asked very insensitive questions and, in some situations, make reprimands which puts them in very uncomfortable situations. Also vice versa, when a Hispanic or Latina says they are black, it comes off as a shock to so many. To some it may come of as genuine curiosity and to others they just pass off offensive comments in states of not understanding how and why it is possible or so. It is heartbreaking to see people go through the emphasis and frustrations of constant negligence relating to incidences like this. Ordinary people and celebrities all encounter people who have no sense of dignity, such people sometimes even come up with scenarios to justify the things they say.