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Bidushi Pyakurel Reflection 4

It is quite baffling to me how patriarchy can be a polarizing topic. With some people saying it doesn’t exist and some arguing it’s an efficient system that doesn’t need any changes, it’s like they can’t see how damaging it is. One only has to understand the meaning of the term and then look at the demographic of the people in power throughout history to know why patriarchy does harm to all members of the society.

When we criticize the patriarchy, we’re not saying that all men everywhere have no hindrances. What we’re saying is that the issues they face rarely has anything to do with their gender, the intersectionality of race, social class, sexuality may are more likely to be the reason for any discriminations they face. This in no way means that one kind of oppression is more devastating than the other. However, it does mean that we ought to recognize the privileges we may have in a system that’s oppressive to someone else.

Bidushi Pyakurel Reflection 13

If I’m being completely honest, the news about the leaked document took a little bit of a toll on me. I went to the protest on Foley Square right after finishing my class and only got to spend about 45 mins. I felt so guilty not being able to properly commit and angry because I honestly thought we were done with this issue at least. It’s infuriating how instead of progressing and moving towards how to make abortion accessible, birth control safer, we’re instead moving backwards having to fight about the same issue again.

It was also interesting to see how many people in Twitter were talking about how this is just like The Handmaid’s Tale. I don’t mean to dismiss their rightful outrage, but the truth is it has more or less always been this way. Women from marginalized communities have had their reproductive rights violated, even in recent times. Dawn Wooten, a nurse who worked at the privately-operated Irwin County Detention Center in Ocilla, Georgia had come forward how there hysterectomies without informed consent were performed on undocumented immigration in ICE detention facilities. While these were unverified allegations, it’s not hard to believe since US has had a history of forcefully sterilizing or performing experiments on BIPOC women, poor people and people with physical and mental disabilities. So, while we protest against the overturning of Roe v. Wade, we must also make sure we acknowledge and fight against the injustice minorities continuously face and fight for them as well.

This shit is so frustrating and overwhelming. There’s a shortage of baby formulas, the foster care system is messed up, our planet’s essentially dying and there’s so much wealth inequality. Forcing someone to give birth in this environment is all kinds of evil. The more I think about it the more hopeless I feel and seeing people make insensitive comments about such an issue, or downright trivialize it, is depressing.

Bidushi Pyakurel Discussion 14

After finding about the leaked document about Roe v. Wade, I think the first thing I felt was exhausted. I thought to myself, “not again”. There has always been much conflict around abortion laws and there are states that have made it impossible to get abortions, but in my head I always thought at least it’s not a federal offense. There are alternatives, albeit difficult ones, but all hope wasn’t lost. Now, I can’t help but feel hopeless even though I know a decision hasn’t been made yet. The news coming out about how some states representatives want to ban birth control, and enforce many other invasive, oppressive policies to govern our bodies infuriates me to no end. I feel like this leak gave them all the fuel and excuse they needed to claim ownership and encroach upon women’s reproductive rights.

This week’s reading as well as the readings from previous weeks has really taught me so much about abortion that I didn’t know. I had vague knowledge about abortion pills but didn’t know it is the most common method of abortion. Also, I wasn’t aware that women helplines like Aid Access existed. I also didn’t know that abortion procedures (pills or otherwise) weren’t covered by insurance. This was the most shocking to me, and I think it perfectly highlights and summarizes the topic of intersectionality that we have been discussing throughout this semester. It is clear to see how low-income households, women of color, and people with disabilities are disproportionately affected by such policies. I know the issue right now is about how abortion may be criminalized, but I think it’s also important to realize that even when abortion is legally sanctioned, there’s still thousands of women that can’t get access to it. While it may read like a right, the truth is that abortion is still a privilege. Like we saw in Abortion Helpline, This is Lisa, there are a lot of women that cannot afford to get an abortion and are forced to carry to term. Add to that, restrictive state policies that create countless barriers to access, and the threats, harassment, and abuse people going to Planned Parenthood or healthcare providers that provide abortion services face, it’s clear to see the de facto criminalization of abortion. It’s ironic how they hide behind veils of “right to free speech” while completely trampling on others’ rights to privacy and body autonomy.

If Roe v. Wade doesn’t get overturned, that doesn’t mean we can sit back and pretend everything is ok when there’s marginalized communities that will still be affected the same way they would be, even if it was overturned. For women barely making ends meet, for women with disabilities, for women with health concerns dismissed by health professional, access to safe abortion is still that much further. Right to abortion cannot truly exist until all women get access irrespective of their household income and their reasons. Like bell hooks said, “Concurrently there can be no such thing as “power feminism” if the vision of power evoked is power gained through the exploitation and oppression of others”.

Bidushi Pyakurel Reflection 12

Artistic activism uses art and activism to bring about a change in the society. In today’s world, where issues seem to be never ending, it can feel quite overwhelming to try to commit to all the multiple causes we feel strongly about. Add to that our diminishing attention span, it is clear why artistic activism, a dynamic, innovative practice that makes a lasting impression calls to most people.

Artistic activism can act as a stepping stone for people who want to participate in activism, but do not know where to start. It is often times an emotional response to whatever’s happening around, and as such there is no hard and fast rules about what can be consider artistic activism or not. Furthermore, it is accessible to people that may not be able to physically participate in protests and rallies, and people that aren’t able to vote. Similarly, it can start at a small scale level and make news overnight, which may be a little difficult for traditional activism. This is not to say that one is better, or more significant. We have always combined all forms of activism throughout history to bring changes.

The beauty about artistic activism is one can integrate their individual skills in whatever way they want to deliver whatever message they want. Whether it’s Carmen Beuchat fusing dance with photography, video, poetry, and performance art or Adrian Piper dressing up as a man and engaging in stereotypical masculine behavior, the range and possibilities of artistic activism is limitless, and there’s always room for more.

Bidushi Pyakurel Discussion 13

These images are a part of a series of 10 pastel works called Untitled: The Abortion Pastels created by Portuguese artist Paula Rego in 1998. In this series, Rego depicts women undergoing unsafe abortion. This was her attempt at advocating for the legalization of abortion, in Portugal. Her work is thought to have been an integral influence in changing the public’s perception of abortion. (Buchanan, 2021)

While there are many amazing arts to chose from, this artwork resonated with me, especially after the recent news about how Roe v. Wade may be overturned. Rego’s art shows the reality of how women (and even little girls) have always had, and will keep having, abortions because of various reasons. Criminalizing abortions will only restrict their access to safe procedures and risk their lives. Most people that protest against abortion demonize it, portraying it as something only “promiscuous” women do. However, like we saw in the movie The Vessel, the reality is very far from it. It is a traumatic experience no women enjoys, but should be entitled to. The least we can do is make sure they get the proper health services and support they require.

Rego’s art aimed to bring light to the terrifying reality of unsafe abortion and how these are real people whose lives we are dictating. It is so much more than whatever moral or religious belief we may have.

Bidushi Pyakurel Reflection 11

Watching the film Period was very emotional to me because this is something I have witnessed growing up in Nepal. I think the practice has now been criminalized, but women in rural parts of Nepal practiced “Chhaupadi” which basically meant they were exiled to a shed away from their homes for 3-4 days when they were menstruating. Even in the cities, it was common practice to not go the kitchen, the worship area where we put the idols of our Gods and to not participate in any religious festivities when we were on our periods. I was fortunate enough to grow up with parents who didn’t enforce any such rules in our home. However, when I was staying with my mom’s side of the family for a year, it was a completely different story. I remember the first time I was told I couldn’t sit at the dining table with my uncles because I was on my periods. Instead, I had to sit alone in a corner, served from inches away because I wasn’t supposed to touch any of the utensils we cooked

Periods is still such a taboo in most South Asian countries, and awareness about female reproductive health is almost non-existent. Most women still rely on cloths as an alternative to sanitary napkins because they do not know any better and the prices are well beyond their means. Furthermore, there’s shame attached to periods, belief that women are somehow “impure” when they’re on their periods. Little girls are forced to leave their schools and women are at risk for many infections due to the inaccessibility to sanitary pads. Yet, there is very little done to bring about a change because the men in power are not affected by menstruation, and as such don’t give two shits.

P.S. There’s a Bollywood movie called ‘Padman’ based on the man shown in Period, Mr. Muruganantham Arunachalam.

Bidushi Pyakurel Discussion 12

It’s been well documented that black women face a higher risk of pregnancy complications than other races. This has always been taken in stride, like something that just happens and can’t be prevented. The truth, however, is that these complications are a result of black women being underserved by health institutions. A birth story taught me what obstetric racism is and how common it is for black women to be neglected and dismissed by health professionals. The fact that someone as affluent and influential as Serena Williams had to go through such mistreatment is a testament to the institutionalized racism in healthcare. While these are not sanctioned by the law per se, such discrimination are common and widespread, making it a de facto practice. These kind of discriminations can also be seen in the case of transgender people. They have been mistreated by healthcare workers and institutions. While most may not deny services outright, their hostility hinders transgender people from accessing the healthcare they need and deserve. I was surprised by how there are little to no repercussions for such discriminatory practices. I had assumed there would be some kind of protection against it but listening to so many similar stories in 12 Reason It should be Illegal for Doctors Not to Treat Trans People, it’s clear that it remains mostly unchecked.

This week’s readings and the film Period show how oppression manifests itself on a medical aspect. They showed us how black women are forced to endure medical practices embedded with racism that dismiss their health concerns, undermine their bodily autonomy and even cause them physical harm. The stories from transgender people shine light on the mistreatment they face from a heteronormative institution that abuses, harasses, misgenders and misdiagnoses, discouraging them from seeking out the medical care they require. Similarly, the suffering of women in rural India highlights how archaic notions of a patriarchal society that remains willfully ignorant and stigmatizes women’s reproductive health, causes women unnecessary harms that could’ve been easily avoided. These are all examples of how certain groups of people are barred from getting the because of systemic oppression.

The format in which these stories were shared helped emphasize that these are real lives and lived experiences. These are not just statistics or discourse topics, these are real people who have been treated unjustly by an oppressive system that mistreats them in every aspect of their lives. The illustrations and the poem were a visual and emotional portrayal of a traumatic experience LeConte went during childbirth. Similarly, the stories from transgender people puts a name on the voices that would otherwise get lost in the background. The film walks us through the real lives of rural women in India , how they live, their hopes and dreams, and their struggles. These formats definitely help set an intimate perspective where one could really empathize and understand the injustice they face. It may not have created a same reaction if we only focused on the academic side.

Bidushi Pyakurel Reflection 10

Among the many amazing topics we have discussed throughout this class, Identity Politics has to be one of my favorites. I have often found myself wondering why people don’t share the same views I do when it comes to gender, sexuality and race. I was briefly seeing this guy who later told me male privilege and white privilege don’t exist. I tried to explain to him why he was wrong, surprised at how he couldn’t see something so apparent. When I tried to explain why he was wrong, upset by his refusal to understand, he said, “this is why I hate politics, it divides people”. This statement felt interesting to me because I didn’t think I had said anything that would be considered political. I was simply recounting my experience as a woman of color. It took me a while to understand that my existence itself was political. My personal decision to have a kid or not is a debate on the “declining femininity and motherhood in modern women”, my choice to flirt with a man in a bar is grounds for discourse on rape culture, my skin tone a measure for who am I and what I believe in. After learning about identity politics, I now see why it was easy for a straight, white man to not care as much (or even a little) about race and gender like I did. It doesn’t affect him either way so he can happily ignore and he can easily say “why can’t people just live together as humans, with no tags”, while I cannot do the same if I ever want to see myself considered an equal to him.

Bidushi Pyakurel Discussion 11

The Combahee River Collective developed the term “identity politics” when they realized that the women’s movement didn’t really represent black women, Black freedom movement only focused on the liberation of black men and queer black women were neglected on both fonts. This demonstrated how liberation based on one’s identity was more significant and powerful rather than fighting for someone else’s struggles. It is easier to accept the status quo if it doesn’t affect you personally and you have no stakes either way. This sentiment is echoed in Garza’s The Politics of Identity when she highlights how she has witnessed white people’s ideologies of “not seeing color” as a reformative action against the oppression of people of color. For them, it is easy to not hold on to their identities as white people because they are considered the norm, the default, the standard of a Christian American Society. People of color, whose daily interactions are carved by the societal perceptions of their identity, don’t have the same luxury. You can’t say “I identify as a human” when you’re racially profiled because of your race, deemed inferior because of your gender, verbally (and physically) abused because of your ethnicity, sexuality etc. When our political, economic and social systems are founded on disparity based on identities, rejecting “identity politics” not just undermines the effects of oppression, it also obstructs the efforts being made to bridge the gap.

One might argue that identity politics is counterproductive, that separating ourselves based on our identities won’t help us in unifying ourselves. However, they fail to understand that this idea is solely for the benefit of the oppressors, for their convenience and comfort. True equality can only come when we accept the difference in our identities, and understand that these differences do not warrant difference in treatment. If we look at William’s Too Latina to be Black, Too Black to be Latina, we can see that as a kid she never identified with a specific group, but that didn’t stop society from trying to fit her in a specific mold, or consider her a deviant because she didn’t. She had to engage in identity politics at a young age, when she didn’t even know what it meant. Furthermore, identity politics doesn’t mean limiting yourself to one aspect of your identity, it doesn’t segregate us into different groups. Rather, it helps us recognize the intersectionality among the groups and can help unify us on the basis of the multifaceted nature of human identity.

I have enjoyed every single topic we have discussed in this class. I know there’s still so much to learn and it’s hard to pick one but if I had to, I think I would want to read articles that discuss how the patriarchal society pits women against each other in the guise of rewarding the “deserving”, when in reality we all share the same fate.

Bidushi Pyakurel Reflection 9

I was really invested in this week’s reading because I’ve been hearing the term “misogynoir” quite often now. I guess I kinda understood it in theory, just by looking at the treatment of black women in our society. Watching Ketanji Jackson’s nomination hearing and comparing it with Brett Kavanaugh’s is all the proof we need. If this is how it is at the top, we can only imagine how it is for regular folks. Reading The Combahee River Collective Statement helped me look at things from a wider perspective, in terms of the intersectionality between the different oppressions black women have to navigate. It is evident to me that black women being free would mean all of us are free.

The film Paris is Burning was equally intriguing. I have always been amazed by the ballroom scene and Voguing. Seeing how it came to be, and how it’s a safe haven for so many young kids was wholesome. The whole concept of “mother” was very heartwarming. The other thing that got me thinking was how so many of the words and phrases used on the internet, came from these scenes. “Slay”, “Serve”, Face”, “Reading”, “Shade”, “Tea” were all created in The Balls. There has been much discourse on how they don’t get the credit they deserve, and have been appropriated by mainstream idea, especially white heterosexual women. I guess this is where identity politics comes to play, and shows how just because you are a part of an oppressed group doesn’t necessarily mean you’d fight against others’ oppression.