Moving beyond the gender binary means not conforming to societal views on how your gender should act. Not fitting into the box of masculinity or femininity, pertaining to clothes, personality, etc. Allowing yourself to express without the conformity of either gender in my opinion is moving beyond the gender binary means. I wouldn’t say that my gender identity goes against the binary norm in too many ways but growing up I always preferred to dress comfier or “tomboyish” than wearing dresses, and skirts. I liked playing in the dirt, things that have normally have been associated with men. I do still have days where I chose comfort over fashion and showcased my masculine side, however. But I also fit the binary norm, lately, I’ve been painting my nails dressing up a bit girlier, i’ve started to wear earrings and rings again. Although it isn’t my everyday style and I do switch up to being a tomboy I do enjoy both styles and having that option. There are days when I’m also in between kinda, a purse and earrings with a men’s sweatshirt and sweatpants.
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Hello Rachel, I completely agree with you! I think that what matters is that we feel comfortable, at peace, and that we can enjoy our fashion. Regardless of having to conform to societal opinions about how your gender should act.