Melanie Velez Discussion 4

I believe there are multiple ways that I experience privilege. In some ways the privilege that I experience are sometimes things I cant control but for others I can. For example my skin color is not something that I can control but my environment is. A Way that I experience privilege is by getting treated better in most instances than someone who may have a darker skin color than I. I’ve seen this through multiple different aspects in my life or interactions with others.Another way that I also experience privilege is by where I live. Even though America is not perfect and still has its faults it is a better place to live in than many countries who prohibit many basic human rights. This can even go as further as just turning on the faucet for clean running water where as other countries don’t have this. Being able to have access to education and living in a society where it’s more modern and up to date with technology making it easier to not only travel around but also communicate with family.

However ways that I face oppression is just by my gender alone. I am a woman.When my friends and I play video games we tend to talk online to people and when men hear my voice thats when I get a wave of sexist jokes of how ” I should be in the kitchen” or ” why are you playing this game dishwasher?” or even get threatened or told how they would want to ……r (fill in the blank). Another way that I face oppression is by my physical appearance. I am a plus size women meaning I am on the heavier side and my entire life i’ve had to live and try to love myself in a society that hates “fat/bigger” people. I’ve faced oppression being a bigger person by the medical field multiple times. I have many health problems that I deal with personally and have went to a doctor before that straight up told me ” maybe if you stop eating all your problems will disappear ” and she refused to check me. After experiencing this I went to a different doctor and was told my health issues had nothing to do with my weight but instead tied back to my genetics.

The reading and the video helped me broaden my perspective of privilege. I always knew that in some ways we are more fortunate than others and vice versa. However my mind about white people and their privilege has changed because I always thought “yes they might go through xyz event but they’re still white” but after reading I realize that there are different things can either give an advantage or disadvantage to anyone. Usually this topic of privilege has always upset me because I find it unfair how life can treat a white person better than others just based on their skin color but after reading this I realize I have to approach this differently. We have to talk about this and push this conversation forward if we want to understand each other because we all face privilege in different ways.

5 thoughts on “Melanie Velez Discussion 4

  1. Talisha Dwyer

    Hi Melanie,

    Yes, I agree with your understanding of privilege and oppression. I appreciate classes like these that allows us to visualize the real world and take a minute to appreciate and gain awareness of vital knowledge we should know as even women. Both readings and the video has opened my mind to the things I would see as simple and to realize they are considered privileges. Thanks for sharing your thoughts on privilege, oppression and the video.

  2. Bidushi

    Hi Melanie,

    I am so glad you brought up sizeism. I feel like we, as a society, are so desensitized towards the discrimination people face due to their size. Whether it’s being made fun of, being neglected in the medical field or not having the same access to basic things (like a comfortable chair in school), bigger people are forced to suck it up as society tells them it’s their fault they’re big. They don’t consider that genetics, health condition, socio-economic background also have a lot do with someone’s weight, it’s not as simple as “they’re lazy”.

  3. Victoria Moros

    As of recently, I’ve been really noticing the immense polarization between the sexes. I always knew it was on grand scale but genuinely when I didn’t think it could get any worse it has. This right here captures it all “However ways that I face oppression is just by my gender alone. I am a woman.”.

  4. Dariany Delrosario

    I love that everyone in this comment thread is very proud that you brought up sizeism. I also struggled with being a bigger girl as I was growing up. Interestingly enough, it is now very popular to be a plus-sized woman or a “thick” woman and bodies are loved to a larger extent. Women go as far as getting plastic surgery to get that hourglass shape and have bigger butts, whereas before the cover of all Vogue magazines were very thin models. I did experience a lot of bullying growing up and even now we see so much body insecurity because of plastic surgery and these unrealistic bodies that these women are portraying to little girls as the new “sexy”.

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