{"id":3470,"date":"2023-02-07T14:42:26","date_gmt":"2023-02-07T19:42:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/openlab.bmcc.cuny.edu\/gws-100-1100-introduction-to-gender-and-womens-studies-prof-hollis-glaser\/?p=3470"},"modified":"2023-02-07T14:42:38","modified_gmt":"2023-02-07T19:42:38","slug":"discussion-3-beyond-the-gender-binary","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/openlab.bmcc.cuny.edu\/gws-100-1100-introduction-to-gender-and-womens-studies-prof-hollis-glaser\/2023\/02\/07\/discussion-3-beyond-the-gender-binary\/","title":{"rendered":"Discussion #3 &#8211; Beyond The Gender Binary"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When reading the sections of this book, I find it very interesting that Alok answers questions i&#8217;ve asked myself quietly in my mind be answered. Additionally, some of the comments that are made that may sound ridiculous but 100% real to face. In some I realize I am still not fully aware of all the meaning behind it and I am open and willing to learn. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">In my opinion, I allow others to choose what they want with their lives. If someone approaches me and communicates with me &#8220;hey, this is my name and this is what I would like to be referred as&#8221; then who am I to decide not to? It&#8217;s basic manners and respect.. We all are aware that we have reached a  time in generations where we will face differences in our everyday encounters. In this reading, I understand that it is more than just tolerance but acceptance that is wanted and deserved. Gender is about self-expression and should not be something an individual is categorized by. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If I have accepted to refer to myself as a female, therefore a cisgender woman. Does that stop me from deciding to wear a suit and tie for a family event, work out until I have big biceps, grow a mustache, and have a love for racecars? Absolutely not! Why? Because those are considered hobbies and preferences that should not be correlated to any gender but unfortunately we live in a society that connects those. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When mentioned that skirts are comfortable in the summer time&#8230;AGREED! Now who is socially acceptable to be seen in one? If you think of an answer other than ANYONE! Then we start to think&#8230;. what is the problem? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I agree that unfortunately, we are still following certain things out of habits and choosing to follow &#8220;norms&#8221; &#8230; but what really makes anything &#8220;normal&#8221; <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">People should be allowed to be people without being put  into boxes based off, well, ANYTHING. Including having to choose a gender. And having to pick &#8220;non-binary&#8221; is sill forcing a labeled box. Aloke states &#8220;The best way to eliminate a group it to demonize them, such that their disappearance is seen as an act of justice, not discrimination&#8221; BOOM. yes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When reading the sections of this book, I find it very interesting that Alok answers questions i&#8217;ve asked myself quietly in my mind be answered. Additionally, some of the comments that are made that may sound ridiculous but 100% real to face. 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