{"id":756,"date":"2020-06-05T00:00:30","date_gmt":"2020-06-05T04:00:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/openlab.bmcc.cuny.edu\/gendercommunication\/?p=756"},"modified":"2020-06-05T00:00:30","modified_gmt":"2020-06-05T04:00:30","slug":"discussion-3-4","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/openlab.bmcc.cuny.edu\/gendercommunication\/2020\/06\/05\/discussion-3-4\/","title":{"rendered":"Discussion 3"},"content":{"rendered":"<table style=\"height: 1125px\" width=\"591\">\n<tbody>\n<tr>\n<td width=\"159\">Appearance<\/td>\n<td width=\"157\">Feelings<\/td>\n<td colspan=\"2\" width=\"206\">Feelings\/ beliefs<\/td>\n<td width=\"147\">Theories<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td width=\"159\">Nose<\/td>\n<td width=\"157\">Love\/hate my nose<\/td>\n<td colspan=\"2\" width=\"206\">I have been told that I have a chubby, wide nose<\/td>\n<td width=\"147\">Biological theory<\/p>\n<p>Social leaning theory<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td width=\"159\">Arms<\/td>\n<td width=\"157\">They are to chubby and have small spots on them<\/td>\n<td colspan=\"2\" width=\"206\">Personally, I hate how my arms look when I am wearing a tank top and I tend to compare how I look to how others look and my confidence goes down.<\/td>\n<td width=\"147\">&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Social leaning theory<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td width=\"159\">Smile<\/td>\n<td colspan=\"2\" width=\"206\">I don\u2019t have perfect straight teeth therefore I wear braces which does not make me feel comfortable smiling<\/td>\n<td width=\"156\">I personally hate my smile because ever since I had braces people would say mean stuff such as having train tracks on my teeth which I no longer get bothered by, but I still don\u2019t feel confident smiling.<\/td>\n<td width=\"147\">Social learning theory<\/p>\n<p>Psychoanalytical<\/p>\n<p>Theory<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n<p>I believe that my embodied communication comply with command performance because to some extend I care about peoples opinions and I try to please them in a way without doing what I truly feel like.\u00a0 I have realized that I have to make changes to make myself happy rather than doing it for others, another thing is that due to social norms I don&#8217;t act upon certain things and even with social norms I want to look a certain way because that&#8217;s how most girls look like and I need to be \/ look like them, which is wrong because I need to be me not someone else.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Appearance Feelings Feelings\/ beliefs Theories Nose Love\/hate my nose I have been told that I have a chubby, wide nose Biological theory Social leaning theory Arms They are to chubby and have small spots on them Personally, I hate how my arms look when I am wearing a tank top and I tend to compare &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/openlab.bmcc.cuny.edu\/gendercommunication\/2020\/06\/05\/discussion-3-4\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Discussion 3&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1351,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"portfolio_post_id":0,"portfolio_citation":"","portfolio_annotation":"","openlab_post_visibility":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[15],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-756","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-discussion-3"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/openlab.bmcc.cuny.edu\/gendercommunication\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/756","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/openlab.bmcc.cuny.edu\/gendercommunication\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/openlab.bmcc.cuny.edu\/gendercommunication\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/openlab.bmcc.cuny.edu\/gendercommunication\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1351"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/openlab.bmcc.cuny.edu\/gendercommunication\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=756"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/openlab.bmcc.cuny.edu\/gendercommunication\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/756\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":758,"href":"https:\/\/openlab.bmcc.cuny.edu\/gendercommunication\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/756\/revisions\/758"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/openlab.bmcc.cuny.edu\/gendercommunication\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=756"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/openlab.bmcc.cuny.edu\/gendercommunication\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=756"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/openlab.bmcc.cuny.edu\/gendercommunication\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=756"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}