{"id":555,"date":"2022-10-21T12:03:51","date_gmt":"2022-10-21T16:03:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/openlab.bmcc.cuny.edu\/eng-201-fall-22-c-perry\/?p=555"},"modified":"2022-10-21T12:19:12","modified_gmt":"2022-10-21T16:19:12","slug":"the-redeemers-demeanor-to-parenting","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/openlab.bmcc.cuny.edu\/eng-201-fall-22-c-perry\/2022\/10\/21\/the-redeemers-demeanor-to-parenting\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00a0The &#8220;REDEEMERS&#8221; Demeanor &#8211; to parenting"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-cover alignwide is-light has-parallax is-repeated\" style=\"background-image:url(https:\/\/openlab.bmcc.cuny.edu\/eng-201-fall-22-c-perry\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2608\/2022\/10\/claudio-schwarz-i9RvPMtQixg-unsplash-1.jpg);min-height:100vh;aspect-ratio:unset;\"><span aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-cover__background has-background-dim-30 has-background-dim\"><\/span><div class=\"wp-block-cover__inner-container is-layout-flow wp-block-cover-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center has-white-color has-text-color has-x-large-font-size\">  <strong><em>DISCREETLY<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group\"><div class=\"wp-block-group__inner-container is-layout-flow wp-block-group-is-layout-flow\">\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center has-off-white-color has-dark-gray-background-color has-text-color has-background\"> This topic specifically is honestly very interesting. When I sit and think the first answer that comes to head is yes, we should keep <strong><s>TEASING<\/s><\/strong> kids because of their innocent mindset. But why an instant yes, what causes me to believe that. &nbsp;Suddenly, what disrupts that mindset is the thoughts on how negative <strong><s>LYING, AND TEASING<\/s><\/strong> can be on children. To my experience from a very young age, I was super gullible. Most of the things that very told I believed without question. This has caused me to conclude that is the original design for humanity. We aren\u2019t designed to<strong><s> LIE,<\/s><\/strong> because it destroys our ability to trust each other. If we truly treated each other as we would treat ourselves there would be no reason to <strong><s>LIE.<\/s><\/strong> The wickedness that resides within all of humanity has influenced us to but up walls and not trust the words that are spoken to us. &nbsp;This begins from a very young age when we <strong><s>&#8220;TEASE&#8221;<\/s><\/strong> children more like<strong><s> LIE.<\/s><\/strong> If we can just adjust the meaning of teasing to complete truth but with a level discreteness. I have learned that just because I don\u2019t say the whole truth it doesn\u2019t necessarily mean I\u2019m <strong><s>LYING.<\/s><\/strong> I\u2019m just exposing a certain level of truth with certain boundaries. This principle, I think should be applied to children to develop healthy habits in their growth. Pushing kids to learn from a young age to be quick to hear and slow to speak.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group is-nowrap is-layout-flex wp-container-core-group-is-layout-ad2f72ca wp-block-group-is-layout-flex\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-resized is-style-rounded\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/openlab.bmcc.cuny.edu\/eng-201-fall-22-c-perry\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2608\/2022\/10\/benjamin-lehman-gsFDI6xzJdw-unsplash-1024x683.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-559\" width=\"-275\" height=\"-183\" srcset=\"https:\/\/openlab.bmcc.cuny.edu\/eng-201-fall-22-c-perry\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2608\/2022\/10\/benjamin-lehman-gsFDI6xzJdw-unsplash-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/openlab.bmcc.cuny.edu\/eng-201-fall-22-c-perry\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2608\/2022\/10\/benjamin-lehman-gsFDI6xzJdw-unsplash-300x200.jpg 300w, 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