{"id":1062,"date":"2022-12-18T20:20:00","date_gmt":"2022-12-19T01:20:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/openlab.bmcc.cuny.edu\/eng-201-fall-22-c-perry\/?p=1062"},"modified":"2022-12-18T20:20:11","modified_gmt":"2022-12-19T01:20:11","slug":"parents-8","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/openlab.bmcc.cuny.edu\/eng-201-fall-22-c-perry\/2022\/12\/18\/parents-8\/","title":{"rendered":"Parents"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"has-white-background-color has-background wp-block-paragraph\">      When it comes to the weight that an adults words carry with children, every situation is different. Not everybody has to watch themselves, but that comes with a certain amount of self accountability in the relationship. Some parents or elders want to frank and matter of fact about the disappointments of life, but then dislike that when they&#8217;re often the prime example of those disappointments that it quickly makes the younger person less likely to respect their seniority. A big problem adults have is that, consciously or not, they tend to have a different set of standards for holding themselves accountable with kids as opposed to adults. They fail to realize that they&#8217;re not treating those kids in a way that will help them be functioning adults one day, either because they&#8217;ll lack a sense of responsibility, or they won&#8217;t trust others will have it either. Sadly, often times it could be both. At the end of the day, kids don&#8217;t need their every whim catered to, but some adults take that too far and don&#8217;t allow their words or actions to be questioned because they&#8217;ve grown comfortable with a certain order of things that they can continue to enforce unless they themselves choose to self reflect. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When it comes to the weight that an adults words carry with children, every situation is different. Not everybody has to watch themselves, but that comes with a certain amount of self accountability in the relationship. Some parents or elders want to frank and matter of fact about the disappointments of life, but then dislike &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/openlab.bmcc.cuny.edu\/eng-201-fall-22-c-perry\/2022\/12\/18\/parents-8\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Parents<\/span> <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":6643,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"portfolio_post_id":0,"portfolio_citation":"","portfolio_annotation":"","openlab_post_visibility":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[18,17],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1062","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-bambara","category-fiction"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/openlab.bmcc.cuny.edu\/eng-201-fall-22-c-perry\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1062","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/openlab.bmcc.cuny.edu\/eng-201-fall-22-c-perry\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/openlab.bmcc.cuny.edu\/eng-201-fall-22-c-perry\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/openlab.bmcc.cuny.edu\/eng-201-fall-22-c-perry\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/6643"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/openlab.bmcc.cuny.edu\/eng-201-fall-22-c-perry\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1062"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/openlab.bmcc.cuny.edu\/eng-201-fall-22-c-perry\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1062\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1063,"href":"https:\/\/openlab.bmcc.cuny.edu\/eng-201-fall-22-c-perry\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1062\/revisions\/1063"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/openlab.bmcc.cuny.edu\/eng-201-fall-22-c-perry\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1062"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/openlab.bmcc.cuny.edu\/eng-201-fall-22-c-perry\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1062"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/openlab.bmcc.cuny.edu\/eng-201-fall-22-c-perry\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1062"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}