{"id":1915,"date":"2023-03-20T17:17:41","date_gmt":"2023-03-20T21:17:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/openlab.bmcc.cuny.edu\/critical-thinking-crt-100-054w-spring-2023-prof-barnes-asynchronous\/?p=1915"},"modified":"2023-03-20T17:17:45","modified_gmt":"2023-03-20T21:17:45","slug":"jahira-bethune-conversation-4","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/openlab.bmcc.cuny.edu\/critical-thinking-crt-100-054w-spring-2023-prof-barnes-asynchronous\/2023\/03\/20\/jahira-bethune-conversation-4\/","title":{"rendered":"Jahira Bethune: Conversation #4"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I decided to go with option number three. On cold recovery 101, my topic choice was.<br>&#8220;Dysfunctional Churches (Cultic)&#8221;. Ronald M. Enroth, PhD, says &#8220;a healthy Church is<br>reconciling and restorative, not adversarial and endless&#8221;. Unfortunately, I understand this topic.<br>too well. &#8220;Dysfunctional Churches&#8221; exposes how we consider our Church&#8217;s family, but we do not<br>realize they can be just as bad for us. Although many may not believe it, spiritual and pastoral<br>abuse exists. Sadly, just as child abuse it can be denied and protected. Members usually respect<br>their pastor simply off of the strength that they hold the title. The world has forgotten that passes<br>are people too. They come with personal problems, mental health issues and so much more.<br>Those that desire control tend to have the worst results. These individuals crave submission just<br>as a man in a relationship. Some may even ask members some questions or push them to tell<br>all of their personal business with ill intentions, taking advantage of their title and the respect<br>and Trust members have allowed themselves to have for them. Just as we choose our friends.<br>and for some of us, our families, we should be careful choosing where we worship. I&#8217;ve learned<br>that passes can be &#8220;spiritual tyrants&#8221; . They can be given the job for what they have presented<br>but once the position comes, they can ruin it. I recently had this kind of experience and decided<br>to Branch out because I knew something was wrong. Church experience&#8217;s of what you want are<br>great until it becomes what it was never meant to be.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I decided to go with option number three. On cold recovery 101, my topic choice was.&#8220;Dysfunctional Churches (Cultic)&#8221;. Ronald M. Enroth, PhD, says &#8220;a healthy Church isreconciling and restorative, not adversarial and endless&#8221;. Unfortunately, I understand this topic.too well. &#8220;Dysfunctional Churches&#8221; exposes how we consider our Church&#8217;s family, but we do notrealize they can be [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":6145,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"portfolio_post_id":0,"portfolio_citation":"","portfolio_annotation":"","openlab_post_visibility":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[24],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1915","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","category-conversation-4-cults","czr-hentry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/openlab.bmcc.cuny.edu\/critical-thinking-crt-100-054w-spring-2023-prof-barnes-asynchronous\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1915","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/openlab.bmcc.cuny.edu\/critical-thinking-crt-100-054w-spring-2023-prof-barnes-asynchronous\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/openlab.bmcc.cuny.edu\/critical-thinking-crt-100-054w-spring-2023-prof-barnes-asynchronous\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/openlab.bmcc.cuny.edu\/critical-thinking-crt-100-054w-spring-2023-prof-barnes-asynchronous\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/6145"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/openlab.bmcc.cuny.edu\/critical-thinking-crt-100-054w-spring-2023-prof-barnes-asynchronous\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1915"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/openlab.bmcc.cuny.edu\/critical-thinking-crt-100-054w-spring-2023-prof-barnes-asynchronous\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1915\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1916,"href":"https:\/\/openlab.bmcc.cuny.edu\/critical-thinking-crt-100-054w-spring-2023-prof-barnes-asynchronous\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1915\/revisions\/1916"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/openlab.bmcc.cuny.edu\/critical-thinking-crt-100-054w-spring-2023-prof-barnes-asynchronous\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1915"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/openlab.bmcc.cuny.edu\/critical-thinking-crt-100-054w-spring-2023-prof-barnes-asynchronous\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1915"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/openlab.bmcc.cuny.edu\/critical-thinking-crt-100-054w-spring-2023-prof-barnes-asynchronous\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1915"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}