{"id":1700,"date":"2025-10-20T19:57:26","date_gmt":"2025-10-20T19:57:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/openlab.bmcc.cuny.edu\/bmccreads\/?p=1700"},"modified":"2025-11-18T18:57:22","modified_gmt":"2025-11-18T18:57:22","slug":"the-emotional-weight-of-thirteen-reasons-why-by-jay-asher","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/openlab.bmcc.cuny.edu\/bmccreads\/the-emotional-weight-of-thirteen-reasons-why-by-jay-asher\/","title":{"rendered":"The Emotional Weight of <em>Thirteen Reasons Why<\/em> by Jay Asher"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-1706\" src=\"https:\/\/openlab.bmcc.cuny.edu\/bmccreads\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/99\/2025\/10\/ThirteenReasonsWhy-201x300.jpg\" alt=\"book cover of Thirteen Reasons Why by Jay Asher, featuring a photo of a blonde teenage girl sitting on a swing\" width=\"201\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/openlab.bmcc.cuny.edu\/bmccreads\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/99\/2025\/10\/ThirteenReasonsWhy-201x300.jpg 201w, https:\/\/openlab.bmcc.cuny.edu\/bmccreads\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/99\/2025\/10\/ThirteenReasonsWhy.jpg 258w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 201px) 100vw, 201px\" \/><\/em>Jay Asher\u2019s <em>Thirteen Reasons Why<\/em> is one of those books that stays with you long after you finish it. Even though I had already watched the Netflix show, reading the book gave me a completely different experience. The novel follows Clay Jensen, a high school student who receives a box of cassette tapes recorded by his classmate Hannah Baker before she died. Each tape reveals one of the reasons\u2014and one of the people\u2014connected to what she went through. As Clay listens and retraces her steps through town, the reader experiences both his shock and guilt while slowly piecing together Hannah\u2019s story. This structure creates an intense, one-night journey that feels immediate and personal, drawing the reader into the emotional weight of what happened without spoiling every detail up front.<\/p>\n<p>One compelling reason to encourage other students to read this book is Asher\u2019s storytelling approach. Asher uses several literary devices to make the story impactful. The most noticeable one is his use of alternating narration: Hannah\u2019s recorded voice is woven directly into Clay\u2019s present thoughts, creating a dual perspective that shows both sides of the story at once. This back-and-forth makes you feel both perspectives, almost like a split screen in your mind. The tapes themselves are also a strong symbol of memory and responsibility. They\u2019re something physical you can\u2019t just delete or skip; you have to listen to every word to truly understand why Hannah did what she did. Hannah even structured the tapes with built-in suspense and foreshadowing\u2014she recorded them so that each listener has no choice but to hear her whole story before passing them on to the next person. That design makes you feel the weight of accountability and keeps the tension building all the way through.<\/p>\n<p>I initially preferred the show because it provided more background information and felt easier to watch compared to reading. However, the book ended up being more focused and direct, which made Hannah feel more vulnerable and real to me. Reading her words directly on the page, devoid of the show\u2019s additional dramatization, enabled me to grasp her pain more profoundly. The things other people thought were \u201csmall\u201d weren\u2019t small at all\u2014especially for a 17-year-old dealing with so much at once. She even tried to seek help, but no one really heard her. That reality hit me hard because it shows how easily someone can feel invisible even when they\u2019re crying out.<\/p>\n<p>What I found most meaningful about <em>Thirteen Reasons Why<\/em> is that teenagers\u2014or anyone\u2014can see pieces of themselves in these characters. It makes you stop and reflect on what you say or do, because your words or actions may harm someone without you even realizing it. It also makes you think about advocating for teen mental health (or mental health in general), because support and understanding can make a huge difference in someone\u2019s life. I would definitely recommend this book to other students, especially if they\u2019ve only seen the show; not just because it\u2019s emotional, but because it sparks conversations about mental health, empathy, and responsibility. The book gives you the heart of the story without all the extra subplots, and it invites you to step into both Clay\u2019s and Hannah\u2019s shoes. And honestly, both the show and the book are tearjerkers\u2014but that\u2019s for you to experience yourself. Because literally, whether you like reading or not, this story stays with you and makes you think about the impact of your words and actions long after you\u2019ve finished it, and if that\u2019s not worth reading I don\u2019t know what is.<\/p>\n<p><em>CW: <span style=\"text-decoration: underline\">Thirteen Reasons Why<\/span> addresses such issues as sexual assault, self-harm, and suicide; to get help, call 1-800-273-TALK (8255) anytime in the United States. Find additional help and resources at <a href=\"https:\/\/www.wannatalkaboutit.com\/13-reasons-why\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">13reasonswhy.info<\/a>.<\/em><\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p><em><strong>Get the book<\/strong> Check out <u>Thirteen Reasons Why<\/u> by Jay Asher at the <a href=\"https:\/\/borrow.nypl.org\/search\/card?id=1aa4573a-06aa-5e3e-a5ff-ee85a9d15f4e&amp;entityType=FormatGroup\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">New York Public Library<\/a>, the <a href=\"https:\/\/discover.bklynlibrary.org\/item?b=11374914\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Brooklyn Public Library<\/a>, or the <a href=\"https:\/\/queenslibrary.org\/book\/Thirteen-reasons-why\/530075\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Queens Public Library<\/a>.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>About the author<\/strong> This review is by Cheyenne Brown.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/creativecommons.org\/licenses\/by-nc\/4.0\/\" rel=\"license\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i.creativecommons.org\/l\/by-nc\/4.0\/88x31.png\" alt=\"Creative Commons License\" \/><\/a> This work is licensed under a <a href=\"http:\/\/creativecommons.org\/licenses\/by-nc\/4.0\/\" rel=\"license\">Creative Commons Attribution-NonCommercial 4.0 International License<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Jay Asher\u2019s <em>Thirteen Reasons Why<\/em> is one of those books that stays with you long after you finish it.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5629,"featured_media":1706,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"portfolio_post_id":0,"portfolio_citation":"","portfolio_annotation":"","openlab_post_visibility":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[6,4,7],"tags":[69,10,42],"coauthors":[20],"class_list":{"0":"post-1700","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-all-book-reviews","8":"category-blog","9":"category-student-book-reviews","10":"tag-eng-201","11":"tag-fiction","12":"tag-novels","13":"czr-hentry"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/openlab.bmcc.cuny.edu\/bmccreads\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1700","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/openlab.bmcc.cuny.edu\/bmccreads\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/openlab.bmcc.cuny.edu\/bmccreads\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/openlab.bmcc.cuny.edu\/bmccreads\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5629"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/openlab.bmcc.cuny.edu\/bmccreads\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1700"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/openlab.bmcc.cuny.edu\/bmccreads\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1700\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1726,"href":"https:\/\/openlab.bmcc.cuny.edu\/bmccreads\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1700\/revisions\/1726"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/openlab.bmcc.cuny.edu\/bmccreads\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1706"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/openlab.bmcc.cuny.edu\/bmccreads\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1700"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/openlab.bmcc.cuny.edu\/bmccreads\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1700"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/openlab.bmcc.cuny.edu\/bmccreads\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1700"},{"taxonomy":"author","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/openlab.bmcc.cuny.edu\/bmccreads\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/coauthors?post=1700"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}